Okay, i've been really good friends with this one guy for a few months now. It was one of those 'he started out liking me, then we became friends when i didn't like him in return' deals. I do a few school activites with him, including track, but hes also big into music and its his passion, as well as sports. He's very shy until you get to know him, but i can tell him all of my problems no matter what it is, he'll listen and give advice. I talk to him online tons and we know eachother very well, and I've begun to hang out with his friends lately, 2 time sin the past two weeks, but he stated that he never organizes plans, he goes where hes asked. He's never dated a girl before i don't think, unless it wasn't serious but i haven't really asked, because of how he doesn't really talk to others that he doesn't know. BUT, here's the thing, i've liked him all along but i would never be able to tell him, though we have the really strong base friendship to build a relationship over.
Theres two problems though. There's three of us who like him. One of the girls who likes him is obsessive over him. She liked him before i did and has been chasing him for months constantly telling him that she loves him and asking if he would date her. He says no repeatedly, but feels bad about it, so he'll hang out with her when she asks him to, which sometimes puts him in akward situations that give him grief. I often tell him he shouldn't hang out with her, because it will confuse her into thinking that he likes her by doing stuff with her, but he feel sit wouldn't be right and shes contantly yelling at him for random things, but he has no interest in her, she just causes heaps of problems.
The second girl does track too, and shes in a musical activity with him. Shes really flirty and shes gone out with tons of guys and she was flrity enough to get him out of his shell for a while and see the real him inside, so obviously she liked him after that because he's just so perfect. She talked to him online a lot, always initiating conversation with him, so he starts to like her to because she expresses an open interest with him. He liked her to the extent that he even got up the courage to ask her out, and then she declined, telling that she did it because she thinks that i like him, but i don't know if she told him that. She shouldn't be a problem, but lately shes been really trying to hang out with him a lot and iming him and telling him all her problems and i think shes starting to regret declining him. I could never let him go out with her, because shes really not a great person and she kind of.. has been around and is known to cheat and be unloyal. I'm not sure if he know this yet about her, or if he'll say yes to her because he's had a thing for her.. but i don't know, because hes a thinker.
And then there's me. The friend who really is in love with him, but wouldn't be alble to tell him ever because she is too shy. I really need help on what to do.
Also; he's having a football game tomorrow and has been telling all his friends about it. Girl number 2 IMed me saying that she wanted me to go too, because she didn't want to be the only girl there,s o i agreed but i can't play football and would hate to be embarrassed in front of him and see her showoff in front of everyone.
I really need help. I don't even know what to do I just know I feel stuck and I feel like something isn't right. can one of you guys help me out?