Bijoux
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Thanks a bunch Dako. Yeah, I agree. We give an overwhelming importance to the gap factor, like if it was what defines absolutely everything else between you and the other person. It's really not. This may sound cliche, but if I get along with someone I've met online, the age is the last thing on my mind. If I can talk, laugh thru things, feel aroused or intelectually stimulated... well I'm not gonna change all that for some dude that is supposedly more "convenient" for me just because he is around my age... and... that's it. A twenty something is not necesarily a better choice, just because he doesn't look like my father
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SO TRUE. Me and everyone out there in this situation should remember that.
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Listen, noone cares. Luckily you are not a public figure or the center of the universe. People is really too busy minding their own insecurities like for wasting more than 30 seconds minding yours. So what if they think for a second that you are 14? It's not gonna kill you, get over it. Life it's intimidating itself. All of us have insecurities. If it's not too skinny, it's too fat, too short, too tall, too much of a virgin, too old, too young, too inexperienced, too many pimples... Is not about your looks, is about the attitude you have towards difficulties in life. Those are not going away. But all those silly demons in your head can go for sure when you decide to pop 'em off.
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Guess I made a silly mistake, that is, telling friends, by showing off this guys's picture LOL I know, I know.... Is just that, there's a hunk in my mail and I want everybody to know Nah, seriously. By their reactions and stuff I really did learn that the best policy it to keep it to myself. Only mentioning appears to be like an invitation to be judged, which can be really really annoying, and completely unwanted.
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That's rare. You have seen posts in here with people saying that 4 years is a gap yes? LOL Age differences and age gaps are not the same thing I guess... Thanks
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As I said, is not for validation. I don't look for that, I know is impossible trying to keep everybody happy. I have the right to live my life and make my own choices/mistakes as long as I'm not directly affecting a third party. This is more about curiosity about an uncharted territory for me: older guys. As the questions I asked to Dako in a previous post. LOL, I know they're just people, but I can't help to feel like we come from different universes at times, because of the major difference in life experience and such.
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I know. People will never shut up. If it's not the age gap, it's because you are too fat, too thin, too gay, too white, to latin, to tall, too short, too single, too unemployed, too underpaid, too undergraduate... Yeah, in the end it is OUR lives. Thanks DW.
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That is so true Charley...Wow! I'm not trying to provoke controversy, although I completely understand that there are rather conservative people out there, and there's nothing much I can do about it. I don't feel I'm asking for validation either... I didn't say things like "please tell me that I'm not looking for a daddy by doing this..." If I finally decide this person is worth it, I don't care if there are angry mobs with torchs outside my house LOL Perhaps I'm just sharing? I need an unbiased point of view from the outside. Just to see if I'm ignoring something important towards all this, is more about not wanting to make a huge mistake rather than needing validation from the public. That's why I said I was looking for insight, thoughts, and not opinions, judgements or permission... See, if I hadn't posted this, I wouldn't have received great insight like yours Charley. It is worth it, even if it means I'm gonna receive crap from other people along with it. Thanks a bunch, I really appreciate it.
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I see you are hot fossil yourself. What could you possibly see on a rugrat besides the trophee tush? Wouldn´t a woman around your age be much more adequate in all aspects? Wouldn´t you end up feeling lonely and like you have to be babysitting most of the time?
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OK, I´ve seen people in this board freaking out about a 7 years gap, calling it huge and junk... Well, here´s a biblical gap so you guys trully freak out on me: I´m 23 and he is 50, you do the math. We´ve only been exchanging emails and pictures, and by now I´m really into him. What can I say? I´ve been getting to know him, and so far, I like what I see. A lot. Both, inside and outside. He´s truly creative, talented, and he is... *sigh*, pretty much a hunk. He does not look younger than he is, but he does look hot as heck. He lives in another continent and there´s an ocean between us. What do I expect from all this? I´m interested in getting to know him, and spending time with him if possible. I´m not wife nor mommy material, I´m not a hubby huntress, and I´m not eager to find a potential long lasting relationship or whatever. I´ve heard before the whole "Lolita looking for a daddy" and "Lonely old fart looking for an ego boost" stories, so please don´t go there. Guess I´m looking for some kind of "outside the box" insight, rather than going all over again thru the traditional taboos about old blokes doing little girls. Thanks
