Grosse vache

do you plan to repeat the actions that led to getting hurt, or do you plan to change your actions to avoid the undesired result? If the latter, I could argue that you are a man-hater now.

I fail to see how changing her actions to avoid being used again means she is now a man hater? Please explain.

God forbid that a girl should enjoy sex and having an orgasm, but not be in a relationship. Should she act like Mary Sunshine 24/7 instead?

What is this? The Victorian age?

No one should have "control" in a relationship. It should be equal.

Talk to her about it.

Or dump her.

If you want to have a rational debate, I'm more than willing. But don't put words in my mouth I didn't say/write. What I did write was that some studies have indicated the majority of women in porn had been sexually molested.

You appear to have the same views on this as another poster who said those things. I'm not "putting words in your mouth". I am highlighting that what you are implying is similar to the other poster. Also, I would very much like to read and critique these studies. Do you have titles/journals/issues ect?

Actually, you are being quite judgemental about my opinions because you don't happen to agree with them.

Do you not think that implying that all women involved in porn are molested by their fathers, drug addicts or homeless is stereotyping? Some women like to be exhibitionists. Some women like having sex on camera. And anyone that doesn't has the choice to get out of it and get some help. There is help out there everywhere you look and if they don't choose to get it that's not my problem and I won't be preached to or made to look like some heathen just because I don't feel sorry for someone I know nothing about.

I'm not undoing any work. I'm letting people make their life choices without being judgemental, which is what you are doing.

It is legitimate. I would encourage as many people to do this as possible.

I am a freak. I am in no way normal. thereforeeee, what people say or think of me shouldn't really matter because I already think that I am worse then they say.

Yet, sometimes, it does matter. And sometimes it makes me want to kill myself.

I'm sorry but there is nothing wrong with porn. Women aren't exploited. Why not just say that all women are weak and feeble and have no minds of their own and be done with it. They don't "have" to do it. They choose to do it. I dont care what anyone says. There are other ways to earn money and there are people and places to turn to if you don't want to do that sort of thing. Life is about choice and I don't think it's right to turn around and try and make someone feel guilty for liking porn. You might as well turn around and ask people to think about the starving children in Africa everytime they eat any food.

And if you're going to say that porn degrades women and forces them into it than you have to say that it also degrades young men and forces them into it as well otherwise you're full of double standards.

Oh and to imply that all women involved in porn are molested by their fathers or drug addicts or homeless is a pretty narrow minded view.

When men say they prefer "curvy" women, what they actually mean is "thin but with big boobs"

Six weeks is not much time. Frankly I'd be a bit concerned if my GF was that 'easy.'

Are you serious?

hahahaha

Some men sleep around.

Some women sleep around.

Some men treat women like crap.

Some women treat men like crap.

There is no "more likely"

There is no "less likely"

I know a guy of 20 that has slept with around 60 women and thinks it's great.

I know a girl of 20 that has slept with around 60 guys and thinks it's great.

I know a guy 0f 28 that has slept with 2 women and thinks it great.

I know a girl of 27 that has slept with 2 men and thinks it great.

See how it goes?

There's a couple of guys at work that are great at hugging. One in particular. He's a big guy and he wraps his arms all the way round you and just sort of envelopes you. I love his hugs. Everytime I see him I get a hug from him and it keeps me going until next time.

It depends how heavy your period is. If you have heavy periods it will be messy, light periods, not so messy. It's a good idea for him to wear a condom and to put a towel down if you're concerned about messing up your sheets or whatever you're on. I've never heard a guy say he enjoyed the blood. Ever. Some don't mind it, others are grossed out by it but I have no idea if any actually like it. Some women get more turned on during their period than other times but it all depends on her really.

It depends on whether the person has chronic PID, a severe case or a mild case.

Repeated episodes/chronic PID will cause a build up of scar tissue in the fallopian tubes, which can evenutally lead to infertility. I'm not sure of the exact length of time but I would suspect it would be over a few years

A severe case may leave scar tissue that begins to block the fallopian tube making eptopic pregnancies more likely but it won't necessarily cause infertility.

Severe, repeated bouts will obviously create more scar tissue and thus lead to infertility much more quickly.

A mild one off case is unlikely to lead to infertility. Keep in mind though that if you got it once you're more likely to get it again so it could end up being chronic, thus increasing the risk of infertility.

Don't know if that really answers your question but thought I'd answer anyway.

Sorry to hear about your loss.

Where are you from?

If you've been taking the pill for over a year it is highly highly unlikely you're pregnant. The drug will have built up in your body and it would take more than one missed pill to even begin to reduce the levels already in your body. Don't worry. But take a test just to be sure and for your piece of mind.

There is NO possible way to genuinely like everyone and have everyone genuinely like you. None at all.

Has anyone else noticed that not one male has posted a reply to this topic?

If you have to ask whether it's a good idea then no, it isn't.

I made a sarcastic comment. I forget sometimes that many people don't enjoy sarcasm.

I see my first post was deleted so I'll repeat it without the "inappropriate" bit.

I hate it. Guys touching my hair as a come on that is.

I wouldn't give up chasing (bad term, probably) men, just because it hasn't worked out before.

Maybe you need to take your own advice? (replace "men" with "women" obviously)

The dumper would probably want to have sex with you.

And then kick you in the face again.

So I don't advise losing weight to get him back. I advise losing weight to lose weight and that's it.

To me sex is all about emotion. Whether that be love, lust or just being downright horny. It isn't a maths problem. But each to their own. Good luck.

Since when was having sex a scientific adventure?