yancey

Sounds alot like my situation. Pretty uncanny. The difference is, I fell in love with my "Mary" and i told her. She told me we were just friends and since then She hasn't even contacted me. I messed up big time! Now since i don't have a "Mary" in my life, i decided to either really work at my marriage and give 100% or leave altogether so I can go out and find another "Mary" So far, I'm trying to have a go again with my marriage. Its tough because when another woman comes along and you fall in love with her, your expectations of the perfect woman gets raised and no one else compares to her anymore. It makes me feel like i settled in my marriage.

Wow! Whats crazy is that my wife is almost the same way! Your description of your wife fits mine to almost a T. The difference is the sex part isn't that bad. The whole controlling and nagging is exactly the same. HAHA! cranbers. I definitely feel for you. I guess the best thing to happen was to have her cheat on you like she did, otherwise you would still be in that hell of a marriage you had. I'm still married to my wife but its been better lately primarily because I do EVERYTHING she tells me to do. As long as I'm not out with friends, or even doing anything fun than she won't yell at me. Now i just gotta figure out how to get my wife to cheat on me so i can have a good excuse to leave my marriage. cranbers..I am dead serious, and not poking fun. My wife truly could be your wifes sister.