creascent-moon

im in the exact same situation right now, except, im the guy thats leaving, for the pas few months, i had been feeling extremely down, conflicting emotions, my mind trying to convince me that my feelings werent true, so that i wouldnt do anything. well, for the first time in my life, my heart was successfull in telling my mind how i really felt, so last monday i told her. since then, i have felt two things: great relief and also, some fear i was affraid that she would speak to me, not that she has since, but im not worried, shes a shy person, but i see in her eyes that she doesnt hate me, that she wants to talk to me, she just doesnt know how. i know this not by talking to her, just by a look she gave me friday. tomorow, im going to go talk to her, i dont know if something will flowrish, but i do know we will stay friends, and maybe even better friends that we were. what im trying to say is, if you really feel it, do it, or else you will have the what if syndrome, if you arent sure, its a matter of do you think its worth it or not. the best advice i can give you is this, follow your heart in whatever you do, it will always do the right thing in the long run, and dont let the fact that hes leaving scare you from telling him, even if he was staying, and you told him, there could have been an unforeseen event that would have been a bump in the road, but since you wouldnt have known about , would have had to live with it. no matter how it turns out, if you dont do it, yes, you might miss the pain, but youll have to give up the potential joy

i dont think so, i know her enough to know that the reason she isnt speaking to me is most probably her shyness, and i am not the kind of guy that bangs girls just for the GQ. I am not a player, and i look down on that kind of person. i dont plan on acting "twitchy". even though the ball is technically in her court, i think she doesnt know what to do with it. tomorow, ill go see her if i have time, i should, and then just try to talk to her about it and anything, just talk, see what happens. anyways, well see what happens. and NoCturnal DrAgoN, if you feel that it would be right to tell her, tell her, if not, if you are not 100% sure that your feelings are genuine than do not, youll just hurt yourself and her in the long run

hi, im new here, took me a while to log in, only to realise i miss-spelled my nick, lol anyways, ill explain what i need help with. im a young guy, in september, ill be moving away for university, but last november i met someone, at first she was just a friend, but since about january, i have felt more than just that for her, i realised that she was able to make me smile by her mere presense, even when i was feeling way down. for the first time in my life, in march, my heart was able to convince my mind of something, and it was that i was in love with her. and the more time i would spend with her, the more i would realise it, i would miss her when she stepped out of the room, and be happy to hear her voice. she is a very sweet, funny, gentle, beautiful, intelligent person, shes a bit on the shy side. last monday, just before she went to her classes, i told her that i would like to speak with her about something, so we decided to meet at around 2 to talk. well, i told her how i felt, im also a shy person so this was extremely hard for me. well her initial reaction was your leaving soon" we stared into each others eyes for i dont know how long, we told each other that we could always talk about it another timewhen there was more time, then continued to look deep into our eyes then just said bye since she had classes. well, since then, she has not soken to me, and has looked at me maybe once that i noticed, we used to speak everyday, alot, and have fun, go out play pool, anything, but now, i dont know... what do you think i should do, and most importantly, what do you think she is thining... we have alot of mutual friends, but shes a pretty private person, and no one really knows... thnx in advanced...