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1 hour ago, tfriend said:

I just feel used.  Am I overthinking it? 

Looks like he's using you as a slave, and a meal ticket, The question is, why are you allowing him to treat you in that way?

Although it may look good on paper so to speak, living with roommates is not a walk in the park, along with making that choice being something you'll likely regret, (imo).

You can still keep your friends, but at a distance. I'd stay put, as you'll have much more freedom living alone.

Of course it's your call.

Keep in mind that the way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. 

As long as you stand up for yourself in a polite and firm way, they'll eventually get the message that they can't knock you down. 

For what it's worth, don't allow yourself to stoop to their level, as that's their goal.

On 6/8/2024 at 5:25 PM, Starshine100 said:

I'm a 20 year old female. A year ago, I was diagnosed with hormone imbalance so I was inserted a Mirena IUD to control my monthly periods. I started dating a guy a month ago from the same school. Things were going great. Before I went into the relationship, I explained to him the issue I have and he was okay with it (so it seemed) and we talked about having sex at a later stage in our relationship and we agreed. 

As we are on a holiday, we live far away from each other. We talked almost every day until recently... I was telling him how I miss him and stuff so we talk about how we wish to be together at that moment. He asks me to send a pic of my p***y. I thought it was a joke and all but wasn't. I told him this

"Yknow the internet is the most dangerous place to send such things. As much I respect you and your body, you need to respect my body." 

He hasn't texted me ever since and now I'm worried that I miscommunicated before we started dating. I just don't put my body out there. Am I being selfish? 

No, you were being smart. He has no interest in dating you, yet he'd be happy to get in your pants. 

Raise the bar, and respect yourself.

You really need to report her, and hopefully avoid her before she turns your life upside down.

Also try not to allow your hormones to over rule your decision making.  You have too much to lose,and nothing to gain.

Sounds like he wants to place you on the shelf, while he shops around.

16 hours ago, clumsy said:

He cooks for me, he is a family man , he is a gentle man

And he's abusive...a textbook case. They all follow the same pattern.  You need to walk away from this before your name hits the newspaper.  You can't change him, it is what it is therefore don't feel that you're  the exception to the rule...you're not.

It's called common courtesy, along with being a gentleman.

What are "simps"?

5 hours ago, black24 said:

Any thoughts on how to tackle this? 

I'm not sure what you are trying to tackle.  It doesn't appear she's trying to act superior, etc, towards you.  

In short, rather than seeing this as a problem, focus on her good points, and show her you're proud of her.

On 4/23/2024 at 6:33 PM, TeeDee said:

The OP & his FI are getting married.  That is a public announcement.  He also shares a 5 year old with his EX-W.  Can you really blame the EX for wanting to meet the woman who will be living in the house where her kid will be when dad has custody?  

Please avoid picking my post apart.  We're all entitled to our opinions.   Thank you, Heart Goes On...

My thoughts are that nothing good would come out of this.   Why not keep your relationship private?

On 4/5/2024 at 8:07 PM, Lexismith said:

I don’t get what the purpose of texting me in the first place was

Because you purposely set it up that way, hoping you'd get a response by leaving a door open.

You're well aware of what you're doing, and the only person you're fooling is yourself.

If you truly want to end this you know what to do, and how to do it.

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3 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

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Vacationed in Orlando last August.

DAISY

As long as you allow him to run the show you'll continue to see the same result.  What you see is what you get.

I'm sorry, as It's never easy losing a pet.  Keep your memories close, and your heart close to him...

2 hours ago, Bene20 said:

Well, if I have to make the first move then what do I do if she says no? Keep asking girls until one says yes? This seems pathetic.

Ask yourself 'how do I get to Carnegie Hall?"  There's your answer...

I'll be the odd one out and view this in a different light. These situations rarely go as planned, or end without a hitch.

His parents and sister are having their privacy invaded in a way that's difficult to see and understand. I'm sure she's a nice girl, but that's not the point here.

Why are they not living together?  If they can't swing it,, they need to wait until they're able to.   JMO...

53 minutes ago, Lexismith said:

Nooooooo this has nothing to do with me 

Tell her it would be more beneficial if she posted her own story...Less confusing.

Fool me once, shame on you-- Fool me twice, shame on me.  Don't wait around for a third round which would give him the opportunity to pull this again, minus the consequence as before..   

Congrats Captt!

Well done...

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She's a adult who made the choice to get pregnant, despite knowing the consequences of that choice.

I'm sure you have all good intentions, and not to sound harsh yet when all is said and done, she could chew you up and spit you out. 

I would offer her your best advice, wish her the best and walk away.

26 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

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STUNT 🏂

Sit tight until nine tonight.

Shell