Hello...this is my first post and I'm learning the ropes so far. Well I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23. We've been together for almost two years now. We have had our share of problems and our ups and downs. I've done my wrongs and he has done his wrongs. We broke up in Feb '06 and got back together early April '06. We broke up in Feb because I found out of his drug use, lies, and being itimate with another girl. So I was so sure that was it. I was not going to take it anymore we were done. The break up was going to be the end of us. I then moved on or attempted to move on. I spent my spring break in London, England and was doing my best to move on in life. I got a phone call the first week of April from him explaining to me he was in the wrong and desperately needed me back in his life. As you know I fell for it and broke it off with the guys I was dating to be with him again.
Now it is December '06 and I thought we were doing great again. He moved in with me at my apartment, we moved from the big city to a smaller town and life was great. We bought a puppy and was the happiest times we ever had. I can actually count our agruements on my fingers that how slim they were. All until recently my snooping eyes read over his phone bill and found out that he was talking to the girl he cheated on me with in early November. It broke my heart once again. I seriously wanted to break it off with him, but I just can't. I guess I'm too weak. I financially can not afford to be on my own right now. He is helping me pay for school, rent and other bills. I could not do it on my own. So we talked it through and he had already stopped talking to her before I confronted him. He talked to her for maybe a three week span. He swears that he never meet up with her just being dumb and talking with her. He knew it was wrong and so he cut it off. I dont know what to believe. Is this cheating?
Just to inform y'all I'm not miss perfect. I've done my partying, cheating and acting single in the past, but I've stopped completely since we been back together.
Thanks for your replies!
