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Let me add another thing. This girl is a lot different from the girls I've dated. She is very religious and has a great outlook on life. I don't think she's really had a serious relationship and is still a virgin. Not someone I would normally date, but something about her just CLICKS with me. Im older than her by about 3 years. When we initially exchanged numbers, I told her to call me up anytime. I remember she emphasized "YOU CALL ME UP!" I did twice after our first talk and yet, she didn't pick up. Sorry, I know long read, but I just had to get every detail in there.

Heres my situation: I've been working with this girl for about a couple months now. There was always a level of attraction that I could feel right away. As we worked more and more together, we would flirt and talk a lot more. She would give me signs such as love taps, joking around with me, and giving me the eyes. My last day of work was last Saturday and all of my coworkers went out and drank that night at a bar. This was the first outing that me and this girl had together. She gave me her number and I gave her mine. I called her on Sunday and we talked for a good hour. I know she was enjoying our conversation because she was laughing a lot and told me how funny I am. I asked her out the same day but she said she had a ton of homework and had to go to church as well. She had to leave and said "I'll talk to you later." Well on Superbowl Sunday I got plastered and drunk dialed her at 2am, she didn't pick up, I assume she was sleeping. I then tried calling her the next day and she still didn't pick up. I even left a voicemail and she didn't call back. It's been about 4 days now and we haven't talked to each other. I know I'm being overly analytical with this stuff, but when do you guys suggest I call her? I know she's attracted to me because all my coworkers and her friend have told me as well. Do you think I called her too much already? I know she's pretty busy all the time and maybe I'm just overreacting. But why hasn't she called? Is it normal for girls NOT TO CALL? It's just that Im not use to the girl not calling back. In my previous experiences, they'll call as much as I do. Suggestions?

BUMP. update I admit it, we saw each other during NYE. In a very bad move by me, we got drunk and had sex. She told me she was trying to win me back. I know I'm stupid for doing it because I knew she would expect us to get back. Well, I still told her I didn't wanna be with her. She told me she could see that I was fallen out of love with her. I told her how we were young and find ourselves thing that I mentioned in my previous post. So she told me she accepted it. In the worst move she could have done, she told me expect me to give you a surprise tomorrow. So I'm anticipating her delivering something. Then at 3:00 pm today, when I was ready to leave for work, I get a call she has fainted at her job. Her mom calls me and we both go over there together. We wait, her sisters and her friend are with us now. They've diagnosed she took 20 sleeping pills. She told the paramedics she wanted to hurt herself. While we wait, she calls her mom in first. Her mom is in the room with her for 10 minutes then I go in. She then doesn't talk to me and I'm just attending to her for whatever she needs. So as shes checking out, we all get ready to go home. Instead of driving home with her sister as I planned, she said she wants to drive home with me. I get her some food, then as I drop her off, she says "That was my surprise." I'm totally shocked by this and can't believe she would do this. She tried calling me earlier, but my battery died out. I don't want to call her, but I am concerned for her safety. Should I just call her mom instead? I am so scared for her safety that I'll do whatever I should do to help her. I know I'm an idiot for spending NYE with her when we should've spent time away. I just really need some help not only for myself, but for her as well. Right now, my elder sister by 10 years told me she thinks its best if I dont give her any contact. I just want to talk to her mom the most to tell her to watch out for her. Please give back any input. I need it. Thanks

Hi guys, I've been looking at this forum and decided to register since this seems like a great community. I was with this girl since I was a senior and she was junior in high school. I'm 22 now and she will be too. She was definitely my first love, first kiss, first everything. She cheated on me around April this year. I should've never taken her back, but I did. The past summer was great between us, it felt like we were starting our relationship all over again and when that flame was rekindled it was great. But starting last week, I really felt as if for me to move on and grow as a person, I would really need to see what it'd be like not to be with her. Not necessarily to date other women, but I feel that I need to see what life is like without her. So I told her, she was crushed and shocked by it cause she felt that we were really doing well. But she told me she understands because she'd feel the same way If I cheated on her. This is day 1 and I'm taking it a little better than expected. I have a couple questions for you guys.. I've already bought her and her entire family Xmas presents, how should I go about dropping these off? I know a big part of the breaking up is to not see her immediately, but with Xmas here we both have stuff we want to give each other. We had a NYE trip planned to Denver with my buddies and some of her friends. Now that this happened, I really think it'll be very awkward with us in the same place making the rest of our group uncomfortable. Should I cancel ths trip last minute? I know shes doing her best not to call me and I am too. She has told me she's a lot more in love with me than ever before but I can't say the same for her right now. I know in the future, she is what I want because our personalities click so well, its why we lasted pretty long even though we were in college. How long should I wait until I can see her and even call her on occasion just strictly as a FRIEND thing? I'm always going to be concerned about her safety and well being, I just wanna see how she's doing. Sorry for the long rant, but I'm really feeling just confused about everything.