messageman2323

Bottom line is that if he had interest and was into you, he would make the effort and be in contact. Even more so because he is a guy and that is often our social role in dating (to be the pursuer). I am in a similar situation with a girl I have gone on a half a dozen dates great dates with her. But lately she has been flakey and is always busy. I had decided to leave it up to her to call me. If they can't make that little effort, they are not interested, nor worth our time. See him one more time if you want. But leave it up to him to contact you and setup future dates. I wish you the best of luck.

Ahhh I see. I think I discovered my problem. I don't work in the city even though I live here. So I never get to meet those cool career driven women in the workplace. Plus, where I work is 95% men (just the way the industry is) so I have no chance of meeting a great girl where I work And Eva and Vermillion why do you have to be so far away ?

Good idea easy. I should prob do that, except that I enjoy being able to leave town on the weekends and do what I want. But maybe I should change my priorities and put off the activities that I do so that I can meet a great woman. BTW I live in SF too. Just got home from the bars. A few cute girls, but nothing great.

I don't know what my problem is? I am content with myself, but I feel so lonely at times. All I want is another long term relationship. Someone to be my best friend and someone to spend my life with. I am handsome, young and intelligent. I am on the path to a good and exciting future career. I have enough money, a nice car, a nice place to live, a great family. I am active, in shape and very healthy. People tell me that I have a good personality and I know how to treat a woman right and I enjoy romance. I am pretty shy going out to bars, clubs and parties where I only know 1-2 people. I try not to show it but I am sure it comes accross at some point. But once I know the person a little bit I am very outgoing and not shy at all. Actually a lot of people I just get to know say that I am not shy even though I feel that I am. Sometimes I just want to stay home on the weekends because I get tired of going out late, drinking, spending $ and hoping to find a great girl. Where are all these great single girls and why can't I find you??? -A Great Guy