OriginOfSymmetry

The pain last night got continually worse. My testicle started to feel ok but then my lower abdamon started throbbing even worse. It seemed to get better if I stayed still and didin't move much. The pain almost made me go to the hospital but not quite. I hate hospitals with a passion. Anyway, I woke up today feeling fine so I guess I'll just wait and see if it comes back. Thanks for the comments.

I am looking for some information from any males on here that have had kidney stones. While I was at work today I got this sensation that felt like someone had just kicked me in the testicles. Well, my right testicle actually. The pain kind of moved from there to my lower right abdomen area, that same area that hurts when you actually get hit in the balls. My boss told me about his experience with kidney stones and said my symptoms sounded similar to his when he had them. On a 1-10 scale I'd say the pain is around a six or so. Granted, I know that none of you are doctors and I'm not looking for an official diagnosis. I just wanted to hear about other peoples' kidney stones. Thanks.

The pain from my previous relationship has long since passed. I came to terms with what happened and have no regret of any kind. As I've thought more on why I can't feel love it may be simply an aversion. One gets attacked by a shark and survives. This might create an aversion to swimming in the ocean or in an extreme case an aversion to water in general. I think I may just have an aversion to close human contact. I'd say that 90% of the time I'm content with being single. I may choose to live the rest of my life without my "better half". It's probably easier in the long run.

Thanks. I'm actually dating someone right now. I recognize the fact that she's a great person but I feel little when I'm with her. When we kiss I don't feel the fireworks I felt years ago. When she hugs me and my head is resting on her shoulder I just stare off into space, my mind blank. I keep dating hoping to feel something again but it just doesn't happen. I don't exactly feel sad by lack of emotion I just feel that something is lacking from my life.

Is it possible to lose your ability to love another person? Three and a half years ago my girlfriend and I broke up after a four year relationship. I loved her deeply and had contemplated marriage. I thought that she might be the "one" but as it turned out she wasn't. Once I came to terms with the fact that I wouldn't be spending the rest of my life with this woman something inside of me died. It took me a few months but I eventually got over her and have tried dating women here and there since. I find myself completely void of interest when I go out with women. I genuinely have no desire to love someone again. More so, I don't think I am able to love. I feel truly indifferent. Anyone else have these problems?