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yes ive asked her out more than once

ive been talking to this girl, 21, for about 2 months now and we've hung out at her place on several occasions, and at mine once we kissed many times and even frech kissed a few times i, 17, was beginning to think that she was no longer interested anymore so i kinda layed off of calling her just to see if she would call me, and she did i asked her out some time ago and still haven't got an answer my question is: would a girl lead me on for 2 months, invite into her home many times, and make-out with me if she wasn't interested??? she takes her schooling very serious so i aren't able to talk all that much during the week (or so she says), and i can respect that i would hate to think that im her little toy and she is using just to get by to find another guy

well she's 4 years older than me so i was giving it some extra time for her to think it over, but i mean she still calls me and what not, and i even went to her house last friday and we kissed then too...what the heck

Ok me and this girl have been talking for about 2 months now, we talk on the phone each day and ive asked her out twice, and she been "thinking" about it for about a month now, we've hung out on several occasions and have kissed many times, and even french kissed a few times. but now it just seems like she wants me to leave her alone... * * *! idk what she is thinking right now and its really stressing me out. someone give me some advice on what to do. would someone that wasn't interested in dating me let it drag on for 2 months and go as far as to stick her tongue down my throat????!!!!

alright thanks, any other tips?

Ok me and this girl have been talking for a little over a month now and i dont no wat to think any more im 17 and shes 21 and yesterday night she invited me over to her house and hang out for a bit like we usually do, after i was there a while we were sittin there watch tv and she asks if i think our age difference is weird, i said no of course not after that we watched tv a little more and talked about this and that and we even kissed for a little bit so i dont no what to think, we aren't "dating" yet so... did she ask me that cuz she honestly wanted to no if i thought it was weird or was she hinting at something else??? someone please help me out

me and this girl have been talking for about a month now, we've been to the movies twice, ive been to her house twice and shes been to mine once and we've kissed on several occasions and talk on the phone for at least an hour usually each day, but the other night (friday night) i asked her if she would date me she thought for a sec and i asked her if she wanted to think about it for a bit, she said ok so sunday night i went over to her house but didn't get an answer yet, how long should i let her "think about it" before asking her again?

well it looks like things have a way of working themselves out, i thought she said that she wanted to talk so i went the whole day expecting to get dumped but turns out she didn't need to talk and now things r better then ever what a great christmas present

in april i think

any got anything that could help me out mayb?

Ok theres this girl that i work with that i have a crush on, I talk to her sometimes over text messages and at work i took her to c a movie and it seemed to go well, she said that she had fun and the movie would have sucked if it weren't for me being there, during the movie i had my arm around her and we held hands and were rubbin on each other and what not and i found it to be very nice and so did she, but its like now im no longer important but lately it seems like that no longer wishes to talk to me, ill send her stuff and alot of the time i wont get any response (no i dont message her 500000 times a day either) ill send her a message, and if the doesn't respond in like an hour then ill send her another, then if still no response ill just leave her alone for a while, and even if she does respond it seems as though she is just talkin to be nice, since she uses minimal words and doesn't really say ne thing other than she has to ill usually message her in the morning saying good morning and at night b4 i go to bed also i asked her if she would like to go out again sometime and she said "ok" which didn't sound like she exactly wanted to go, but she is just to be nice, it makes me very anxious and seein as how shes the first girl ive ever taken out i want it to work out but just dont know what i need to do next i wouldn't of even thought to ask her out (cuz shes a bit older than me) but she seemed like she really wanted to go out with me, so i did, and im takin her to my senior prom am i just being paranoid or what? ive been anxious for the longest time it seems like and i just realllllyyyy want it to work out, cuz she really is an amazing girl PS: im 17 and shes 21, but once again she really seemed like she wanted to date me

thats a very good point mkmki, thanks

well its not that i dont know how to talk to women, its that im to dam shy too, trust me if i could just walk up to a girl i liked that tell her that id be alot happier

thanks green

it sometimes seems like my life is just a big long chain is screw up and disappointment well u guys may or may have not read my post about tips on asking a girl...well turns out the girl i was going to ask out that ive known for roughly 9 months likes someone else, and that someone else happens to be a friend of mine that shes known for like a week here wat has led me to this assumption: 1. he's now the highest guy on her top 8 on myspace, i was for about 5 months (may not seem like a big deal but it is to me) 2. she posts the little surveys on myspace with questions asking if she has a crush on ne one, and ever since she meet him she's been answering "maybe" the problem is, is that i dont even think that my friend would respect her for who she is, he doesn't no her like i do i only wish i wasn't so dam shy and my self esteem wasn't insanely low that i could've actually gotten the guts up to ask her out lifes pretty rough on me even though i always do the right thing, i just dont know how to win man i feel so dumb PS: how is it that all the jerks get the good girls?