LONESOUL

Thats allot of love DYT, and allot pain. It comes through

well in your writing. It's good~

..you are very loved here, we're all right here with you kiddo, don't

you forget that.

(and Ellie, that was one of the sweetest things I think I have ever read)

And Good Luck in the new job to you

 

I think frustration sums it up well.. some days i get hardley anything done, as i get so irritated with the way my boss runs things that i cant be bothered, and then at the end of the day im soo annoyed with myself for just taking all the rubbish.. but then again he is the boss so what he says goes ](*,)

I want to go to work feeling eager, interested and raring to go.. not thinking of all the nightmares ill have to sort out as hes incapable of running a company properly

Since ive been ill its given me a kick up the bum to get going on all fronts and sort my life out a bit.. i think a change is something that will really help

 

Gosh we really are in the same boat! Sounds like we will both be happier someplace else! Postive thoughts!

Do you need to talk about it?

Shake it off, it happens, start over and be good to yourself~regardless

of the fact that you had a weak moment. Learn the lesson from it.

Try not to repete the mistake thinking the result may be different,

chances are, they won't be.

Just know that sometimes NC really is a good idea just so that you

have enough space and distance to get stronger, so you can heal.

Hi, I have no advice for you, I'm sorry, except that change can be a really good thing. I just wanted to let you know I am in the same boat.

I have been with the same company for 10 years, I have given my resignation and the 30th will be my last day. I just need something different , my company has changed a great deal through the years and it has left me very frustrated.

Best of luck to you!

Lone

"I feel like the emotional bond and the closeness I have with my girlfriend is more intense than any relationship I could ever have with a man. It only makes sense that the emotions run just as deep during a break up. "

Yes, thats what I am saying Kate, thanks.

You're right, we haven't spoken for 2 weeks now, in some ways it better,

but NC has its own downers...

Oh yes that is true, I have many male friends, and they hurt every

bit as much as the women, I just meant that...I'm not sure I can explain it,

it's so explosive..so much raw emotion and conversation and I don't know drma sometimes with women...I don't know, but I'm not so sure it's a good thing..***sigh***

I agree with oatmeal, and I love oatmeal's jumping Panda avatar!!! lol

Hi OJ~

Oh, so both. Like you I was angrier earlier on, but now I just miss what we

had. I miss having the deep connection with someone. I miss holding her at night, and I miss how she would roll over and tell me she loved sleeping with me because she felt so safe..

Like you said 7 years is a long time to build some very significant bonds.

It's so emotionally and passionately driven, the whole thing, the realtionship, the love,the sex the break up, all of it. Thanks so much for responding. I

really would like to hear from others on this.

I think I just need to rant for a minute...why is it when two women break up

it feels like h*ll's fury has been unleashed. It's so deeply emotional on both parts. Maybe it's like that in hetro relationships too but wow...

We were together 7 years, but we have been apart for 8 months now..

I'm so ready for these feelings to be gone! Anyone else feel this way?

I don't believe that it is a sin. I believe that sometimes people feel that their pain far out weighs their ability to cope. I don't believe that it is a sin, but it is waste. Life is precious.

I don't know, like I said, she acted like it really didn't bother her...

and I guess thats good, in a way. it's good not be jealous you know? But.. it's

another thing to close your eyes.

I think he told her because he felt he had to and he could play it off like

"the hero"

I think he has some fantasy of being able to say "well we didn't mean for it to happen, he was just so sweet...in his head)

Kinda backfired if he had bad intentions though, some guys shes been seeing just sent her roses too...and she really likes this guy

They ride to work together, he couldn't have gotten them in

DYT. (well, lets face it, I guess he could have if he had really wanted to,

where there is a will there is a way but..it would have been very very difficult)

Thanks all, thats totally what I thought. Belladonna, yes, if they were very close then a little friendship bouquet from them both, how sweet..

otherwise, totally inapproprate~I think.

Made me feel bad for my friend, I feel like something is coming her way she doesn't want to see, I hope I am wrong, but if I'm not I guess I can do is be there for her.

Just a general question. This happened this morning to a couple I am very

good friends with. They have been together 7 years. Good relationship, most of the time, the few issues have been because he thinks he is a player.

He brought her flowers yesterday, red roses, nothing special. She has a co worker who is a very sexy woman. She is always saying to my friend ohhh

why can I find a guy like____ and ____ is so fantatic and she flirts with him big time. So yesterday, he asks his GF can he buy this woman flowers for V day cuase she has no man. My friend, says oh he is just being friendly.

Okay, he is NOT friendly with anyone other woman buying her flowers and such...

Now I am glad she is okay with this, but it has me questioning myself,

it would not be okay with me if my SO did that.

But why, I am not a jealous person either..

I mean it's not like this is some little old lady this is a fine young hot woman, andhe seems way to eager to be her night in shining armor to me...maybe thats why??

Who knows, anyway, how would you feel? Feedback, it would be okay, or not okay?

I'm sure this is hard to accept SG, but it is abuse.

He'd never touch my dog again. (he'd never touch me again either but...)

"Hell, yes, he's abusing your dog!

I'm sorry, but I almost burst into tears reading your thread. Please, I beg you...if you won't leave this man, at least find a loving and safe home for that defenseless little beagle."

I agree with Scout. 100% here. Please make sure this stops.

I had a beagle for 13 years, she was so smart, my very best friend~

they are great dogs but they have allot of energy. She needed allot of play time.

Paco paco

I smoke for 27 years...I quit ten months ago. I used the information contained

on link removed (Kellbell has posted you a link above)

If I could stop, anyone can stop. Best of luck to you.

Take Good care~

Lone

Oh thats so great Ren, I'm glad you are feeling better!

Take care!!

Congrats, Best of luck. I'm excited for you!!

2/7/07 is a great day to be born!!

I'm so sorry for your loss. I had to put down my best friend two years

ago, it's so so hard to do.

Know that she loved you and that you gave her a good life, and know that

putting them down is so much better than letting them suffer. It is the ultimate show of love and an unselfish act of kindness.

Hugs to you. Rememeber her fondly. Maybe plant a tree in her name you can visit.

((HUGS REN))

I bet your friends don't coinsider you a nuisance at all Ren.

That is what friends are for sometimes~cheering you up when you feel down.

It will get better!

People say thoughtless things like that all the time (and that is all it was, you just didn't think about offending anyone, you didn't mean harm), I have tougher skin then that, I think most gay or lesbian people do. He most likely just shook it off. I wouldn't make a big deal, the next time I saw them I would try harder not to say that, and continue to be cordial with the guy so he knows you think he's an okay dude, nothing personal...

I hate v day~

You said everything I feel, I might as well have written it myself!

So nope you are not alone in this Kate!

(and by the way, how are you? Hope you are well)

Hi Orlander~

Good for you, you can clearly see the pattern and are trying to do things to break it. That's a good part of the fight.

Hang in there!

(oh and..get out this next weekend, no sitting around feeling sad,

take another martial arts class, go to a movie with a friend)

Kate~you are right on!!