LONESOUL

Leo

As a fellow dumper, who has also been a dumpee in the past I can tell you~

I totally agree. Sometimes ~They can both really hurt thats for sure!

good post.

Ren,

I think you seem like an awesome person from your posts. You seem

very caring, and very honest. You cannot seem to hide your heart of gold.

Try not too worry to much about what other people think though, this would has billions of people in it and we are all different. Some will like us, some will not. (you don't like EVERYONE either, do you?) I think you are well liked here. I think people would really miss you if you were not here to post and brighten their days, I know I would.

Pacopaco~

I have been following your path to healing, I think you have come

a long way. Each step is painful I know, but you are walking that road to a better happier life and I am happy for you that you are finding your way.

Good for you.

Take good care~

Lone

I told my sister when I turned 21. I was nervous, she was great.

We allot of years between us (I am the Baby)

I have never regretted it~I doubt I would have even if she had

not taken it well.

No, not everyone~or it would be allot easier to find.

Congrat's Spugly!! Hang in there~! (give the punch bag h*ll)

The song says it all. I love that song.

Thanks~Lone

I posted this on an off topic thread called DIG, which was on Healing from break up or divorce at one time~it was suggested that it might be helpful over here as well since it deals with the passing on of a friend and the struggles of another to go on. It's a true story, please excuse the spelling and grammar.

"I'm going to share a story about life.

One of my closest friends and I met here at my job 10 years ago.

We are close in age and have allot in common so we just became fast friends.

He was with his girlfriend of 8 years, and I had been with mine for about 7.

He was 35 and had never been married, or had children and although he loved kids, his GF Lisa could no have children.

Anyway, one night he called, very late, he wanted top be sure both myself and my gf at the time were both on the phone. Lisa, his Gf had just died suddenly from a brain anuerysm on her way home from work. She was 38. They had just bought a home together, it was October, and they had tickets to go to Cancun for Thanksgiving. All of a sudden he had lost his entire world. He couldn't eat, he couldn't sleep, he couldn't think. I took him with me on my vacation that year. We all took turns calling him and making sure we invited him everywhere, sometimes he would go, mostly he would not. He was so depressed we worried for his life. Love, love him and pray for him was allwe could do for him, no one had the answers.

A year passed and, with time he begin to eat again, and to sleep again and to adapt. It was one of the most difficult things I have ever watched someone do. But life has a funny way of just happeneing, you see~

I have another friend as well, her name is Cheryl and, after about a year and a half or so Kenneth (thats his name) and Cheryl began to date. Then, about a year after that they moved in together...Next friday~their baby boy will

(I love him!!) will be one year old. (Ken is now 45) Tonight I am going to his birthday party~ (the babies)

Kenneth's cup runneth over. Mine runneth over for him.

Life It's not over just because we think it is, or just because it doesn't go the way we planned it or because it feels like it is over feels l.. it's not over it's over, hope is alive and well, if we will just embrace it."

Z~Hey Buddy,

You just have to do it. It's hard when you work together, but you just have to be even that much more commitited to doing it. You have walked away from things before~it's not much different, you just walk away and begin to deal with the healing and with yourself. You don't answer when she calls, or emails or sends text....even if she is not listening to you when you request that she stops. You have the ball Z. You can do it, you deserve to be with someone who knows what an awesome guy you really are. (and who loves that leather jacket on ya! Hang in there!

If a man wants to be treated like a man, he should act like one~and not like a spoiled child who did not get what he wanted for christmas.

"The party-poopers!"

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LOL...Z!!! Seek help dude...lol!! (who luvs ya Babe!)

Why the chin down Brit?

I read that too, I agree with you and Dako...ready for the future and the promise of things (and people) who have not hurt me.

Brit~she's very pretty. The two of you look alike.

Morning Desert. Hope you are well.

I'm off to a lunch meeting~talk to you folks later.

Lol, Craig is lazy too, and very spoiled, but not a bad kid either. Maybe is just the age, or maybe is the generation, who knows? lol

Lets see um!!

I will put the Star Spangled Banner on the old victrolla!!

Lol, I know what you mean, my ex has a son. He was 10 when we got together, he will be 18 in Jan.

How old is Michael Sandy?

What do you call the little mohawk type feathers on the top of their heads?

I think those look nifty!

Ohhhh! He's so cute! (and the bird ain't have bad either! lol)

I didn't know you had a son, tell me all about him! Is the only child you have?

I can imagine, a little bird could get hung on lots of things I bet!

They are so sweet when they are hand fed...they trust completely.

He's way cool!! I know he keeps you company. I had a friend who had one named "Petey" She loved that bird, and he was smart. One time she had a party and someone let him out of his cage when the ceiling fan was going full force. Nothing happened to him, but my friend was so mad! I didn't blame her,

He could have been killed!

I give myself a buzz on the weekends! lol (I know what you mean...)

Oh Sandy, Duckly is cute!! Was he hand fed when he was a baby?

Well Corporate America is corporate America, fun stuff. lol

I get to spend an awful allot of someone elses money. So my stress level is high. But, it's a living.

I'm Purchasing Agent, Procurement Specialist, Senior Buyer, pick a title,

they all fit. And You?