hi everyone, i was trying to get help or any type of information with this little situation im in. might be a long story but im just trying to give out all the details.
i've known this girl from the internet for about a year, she introduced herself to me on myspace. i was never the type to hook up with someone on the internet because i have no problems with meeting and talking to girls in person because im outgoing. so yeah we would always keep in touch having little convos here and there and helping each other out with whatever, but for the past week we've been talking 24/7. by phone, but mostly by text messaging because she works all day (literally). we always been the type to flirt around, but all of a sudden it got to a different level. we would start giving out those "your so cute" "beautiful" comments with her little playful words like "i need to take a shower wanna come?" she was never really like this with me until now. then she started sayin stuff like "i need someone like you to come home to from a long day of work", and got into each others past relationships and so on. she also kept telling me to visit her at least 3 times a day, so we set up a day to see each other to go out to eat and just have a good time. she only lives about 20-30 minutes away and saturday was her only day off and she wanted me to come down, i had nothing to do that day so i said yeah why not plus shes beautiful, the type i would be intimidated by. now when i finally meet up with her at her work, giving each other the usual "aw you look so cute/pretty" comments. then we headed over to the mall to talk and walk around, and for some reason we were both shy around each other. i dont know why, maybe it was because its the first time we actually saw each other. we're both definitely not shy, im an outgoing person, but for some reason she got me on that shy level. so then we go out to eat and talked but not that much. then i drop her off and give her a hug and tell her thanks for showin me around it was fun blah blah vice versa. now all of a sudden the next day comes, and she doesnt give me that regular wake up call or text message sayin good morning like she has been doing for the past week. im so used to her starting off the convo because thats how its always been, so i didnt hear from her the whole day. the next day comes and i get the same vibe as the other day, no call or message to just say hi or whatever. do you think the attraction between us is gone? is it back to the friend level? whats the best thing to do?
i wanted to ask you guys because if i ask my friends they probably wont take me that serious because they know i never have problems with girls, just with this specific one. plus it was the first time i ever met someone in real life over the internet.