Styles

yeah thanks guys. lately shes been talking to me like im her boyfriend and just yesterday she hangs out with him and tells me how she had fun. then she calls me late at night saying stuff like "hey sexy" and how she misses me. exactly what rose2summer said, im going to leave this girl alone because i can see what shes trying to do and leave it as friends.

Yeah thanks PRSOV, exactly how i looked at it but i'm scared to pick an option and stick to it. I've always looked at situations like this as "if shes doing things with you while she has a boyfriend, imagine what she might be doing while your her boyfriend" type of thing, but i've known this girl for awhile and know how she is. I'm just really feeling confused/weird about what has happened.

I'm feeling a little confused right now. My friend (had a little thing for her but she never knew) that i havn't seen in awhile for about a month is flirting with me and she has a man. We've hung out this weekend on friday/saturday for a good 3-4 hours each day. When i was driving to take her somewhere she talked about problems with her boyfriend asking me for advice and what not, and says "we havn't been talking but we're still together". now we're at the mall just walking around checking stores and whatever, and for some reason she puts her arm around mine and has her head on my shoulder. then later on she holds my hand but i get out of it and make a joke, she does it again and says "please hold my hand" and i just go with it. at this time i feel weird because we're in public like this and you never know, you might run into her boyfriend or a friend that might tell her boyfriend. the day goes by and i drop her off and she gives me one of those long hugs and a kiss on the cheek and says "call me later". which just left me with a confused thought in my head like "whats going on here", but i didnt end up calling her because i was confused. I just want to know whats the best thing to do in this situation? just wait it out and see what happens between her and her man?

thanks guys for responding to my situation. well she actually just talked to me today, it was like our talks before. its more on the friendly/flirty side now and we talked about how funny it was that we were both shy when we met. also talked about another day to hang out as friends which doesnt put any pressure on both of us and we can just be ourselves and go with the flow.

hi everyone, i was trying to get help or any type of information with this little situation im in. might be a long story but im just trying to give out all the details. i've known this girl from the internet for about a year, she introduced herself to me on myspace. i was never the type to hook up with someone on the internet because i have no problems with meeting and talking to girls in person because im outgoing. so yeah we would always keep in touch having little convos here and there and helping each other out with whatever, but for the past week we've been talking 24/7. by phone, but mostly by text messaging because she works all day (literally). we always been the type to flirt around, but all of a sudden it got to a different level. we would start giving out those "your so cute" "beautiful" comments with her little playful words like "i need to take a shower wanna come?" she was never really like this with me until now. then she started sayin stuff like "i need someone like you to come home to from a long day of work", and got into each others past relationships and so on. she also kept telling me to visit her at least 3 times a day, so we set up a day to see each other to go out to eat and just have a good time. she only lives about 20-30 minutes away and saturday was her only day off and she wanted me to come down, i had nothing to do that day so i said yeah why not plus shes beautiful, the type i would be intimidated by. now when i finally meet up with her at her work, giving each other the usual "aw you look so cute/pretty" comments. then we headed over to the mall to talk and walk around, and for some reason we were both shy around each other. i dont know why, maybe it was because its the first time we actually saw each other. we're both definitely not shy, im an outgoing person, but for some reason she got me on that shy level. so then we go out to eat and talked but not that much. then i drop her off and give her a hug and tell her thanks for showin me around it was fun blah blah vice versa. now all of a sudden the next day comes, and she doesnt give me that regular wake up call or text message sayin good morning like she has been doing for the past week. im so used to her starting off the convo because thats how its always been, so i didnt hear from her the whole day. the next day comes and i get the same vibe as the other day, no call or message to just say hi or whatever. do you think the attraction between us is gone? is it back to the friend level? whats the best thing to do? i wanted to ask you guys because if i ask my friends they probably wont take me that serious because they know i never have problems with girls, just with this specific one. plus it was the first time i ever met someone in real life over the internet.