Midaregami

Definitely a great idea in my humble, female opinion. I would feel so touched that my boyfriend showed me he actually cares enough to send me roses overseas, that I wouldn't see it as a problem that I couldn't keep them at all - the symbolic value and the memory it would create, far outweighs it.

My boyfriend lives about 15-20 minutes away from me, and we usually see eachother around 4-5 days a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Our circumstances are a bit complicated, as we both still live with our families. He is currently looking for a job, while I'm staying at home this year due to disease. Usually we will say good night around midnight, and spend the night together whenever we have the chance. Which is not too often, every other week or so, and at the moment I'd like it to be more frequent. Other than that, I'm overall satisfied.

Oh my god, sounds like you did make the right decision after all! Have fun with your girlfriends and good luck on your fresh start!

Hi there, this is my first post here ^^ I'll try to keep it short, but here is my story; Me and my boyfriend broke up about 3 months ago. We had talked about ending things for a while, but in the end, he made the decision. Our relationship wasn't the longest, about 9 months. I would say we had a good one though; we were best friends as well as lovers. He is such a special guy, and i have never felt like i do for him before.We were also good friends before we became a couple, we liked eachother right from the start and kept growing closer and closer. Due to difficulties in each of our lives, we started fighting more and more, and things got so bad that he couldn't take it. I'm not gonna begin to list how it happened, that would probably take several pages, but at least we didn't part as enemies. So, i had a bad heartache, but i accepted what had happened and that it was over. Two months passed by without any contact. Then, i suddenly started missing him like crazy, and i tried to contact him. He was very positive about talking to me again, and now we are on good terms, sort of like we were before we got together. I've done a lot of thinking, about us and what went wrong, and i've decided that i feel it's worth another shot. We have been sending eachother messages online, and had some loong sessions on msn messenger - just like how we got to know eachother in the first place. So now i'm wondering, how do i proceed to move forward from here? I would like to ask him out to meet me at some point, but i'm so insecure - how can i best do that? How can we eventualy rebuild our relationship? Some advice would be greatly appreciated