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Get one of your friends to call him, and possibly they could pick it up as well. Im sure they would understand.

Good posture is related to confidence. Like you said, you felt for confident when you stood tall.

Women love confidence... So just practice keeping your back straight whenever you remember, and soon it will become a habit.

From here on - dont tell her you like her.

Dont try to spend too much time with her.

You need to be a challenge for her. If she isnt fully interested in you yet, you will only turn her off if you make it easy for her.

Dont let her know youre more into it than she is. Hold your cards close to your chest and let her do some of the chasing. If you arent talking to her, she wont lose any interest in you. It just prevents you from stuffing anything up, and chances are, she will be thinking about you.

And while she is thinking about you, her interest levels are going up.

...and dont send goodnight sms's...

1. did you orgasm

2. do you normally cum when you masturbate/orgasm

First of all I just want to say that I don't buy the "I didnt have a choice line" You always have a choice...and well, this time you chose wrong. Anyways.

 

Yeah...you're looking at assault here. Turn your friends in? I wouldn't. What I /would/ do however, is actually seek this person you assaulted out, and confess/apologize/ect. She may want to press charges, be prepared for that. But you owe it to this person to make up for what you did, and not only that, but to make sure that you and your "friends" don't let this crap keep happening.

I agree with this completely. Its amazing what just saying sorry can do... Who knows, this girl has probably completely changed, and you might get along with her really well.

Just talk to them... Who cares what they think about you? Dont expect anything to come from talking to them, just make it your aim to talk and to raise your confidence.

Instead of talking to girls to try and pick-up or get numbers, make it your goal to simply talk to them. Once you have, you are successful.

But seriously... who cares what the girls think? Dont worry about what theyre thinking, just do what you want to do. (but do it fast, so you dont have time to think about what theyre thinking)

Tell him? I dont think men (well at least Im not) are very protective of what deoderant we use...

Its not like its a personal insult on us, just the people who make the spray.

If its a good friend of yours who has developed something - do it so that there is no chance of him/her thinking there will ever be something more.

Basically, be firm, but kind (if thats possible?). Say something like "I dont, and never will, see you that way. But you are a good FRIEND."

If its not a friend, and is just some random, tell them the truth.

Its its someone you sort of know, then tell them the truth.

did she enjoy it?

did you?

if so, never mind...

Ask her out

I think because parents and children are blood related and we usually find a way to forgive them.

you just have to forgive them... theres no other choice

you have the ability to chose everything except your family, after all

I'd cease all contact and try to find someone else who makes me feel just as good and who feels the same for me. I'm all for friendship and stuff, but if we're hanging out and all I can think about is being with her, knowing it is impossible, I am not doing my body or mind any good. It sucks for the person but hey, they asked for it by not wanting us.

 

Interesting post. I don't know what the answer is - but one thing I am sure about is that I wish I could take back all the time I had wasted over-analysing an unrequited love.

 

Do you know what I mean? Reading so much into the way he said 'hello, how are you?'; analysing patterns of telephone calls; thinking about the way he looked at me.

 

And if it was unrequited love, then I think I would have to cease all contact, because I couldn't bear someone to know that I had feelings for them which they could not return!! I would think they were feeling sorry for me, and that would just kill me.

 

Someone said that all love is good. A quote I like is: "There is a time for departure even when there's no certain place to go." Guess that's what I would say about unrequited love...move off into your own future, where you will be at the centre of someone's world. You have to at least be at the centre of your own world...

 

These two posts are so true... for me, there is no way I can healthily continue being friends with the girl im into. I dont know how anyone could do it.

 

I just wish I could move into my own future immediately... taking things week by week seems to go on forever.

March next year - starting University. New people, new life. If only it could start tomorrow...

 

Sorry bit of a tangent there... =/ If anyone has managed to stay friends in this sort of situation, Id love to know how they did it.

What exactly happen with a person with depression?

Feel empty... sad... unhappy with their own life

Are they suicidal?

occasionally... but i would never go through with it. wouldnt put anyone else through it.

Are they gloomy?

god yes...

Would the depression affect their ability to socialize or work?

its hard to concentrate on work, and I dont feel in the mood to talk to many people, and when i do, its sometimes obvious im in a bad mood

Would it affect you towards making pesimistic decision?

depends what on, but i would say generally it does

Does it hurts you a lot?

when you are unhappy with your own life, its hard to get away from it, and it hurts constantly

just an empty feeling... like something is missing from inside (happiness?)

How does depression affect you in life?

cant concentrate at school, cant be happy for too long without becoming sad again

And how do you overcome it?

time... i hope...

butterflies suck...

Yeah honestly butterflies aren't even a happy feeling - for me it was almost a sense of dread. I would get physically ill every time I knew I was going to be seeing the guy I was crushing on.

Im like this, only its not so much 'physically ill' as just feeling really bad... (and its not the guy im crushing on )

I also get butterflies sort of like an empty feeling when things arent going right in life... They're a by-product of me being in a really bad/unhappy mood...

She looks like a man... I dont think physical attractiveness is a huge category with relationships, since (for me anyway) if a girl has a nice personality, they will appear hotter.

That said, its hard to remain attracted without physical attraction...

Keep working at it - soon you will get what you deserve, and so will he.

just ask her out - what do you have to lose?

Lets drink to this year ending - quickly

*cheers*

act like yourself...

then do what babydoll said

but dont have your expectations too high

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try that - you can sign up to get an email every day that should motivate you a bit.

You need to just get into it. I have the same problem (and am in the same situation - in year 12 as well). Get rid of distractions, and just go... you need willpower. Nothing anyone else says will get you motivated, YOU have to WANT it.

Good luck

tell her you like her

no, dont...

Ask her out, and see what she says.

Hmm that doesnt sound good

I wish it said how long 'prolonged periods' were though... Maybe Ill go to ask the pharmacist tomorow, see what they say about it...

I rekon a day

For a few days in the last two weeks (about 5 times now) I have been taking a caffeine tablet at about 3pm to help me study when I get home.

Ive found that it has really helped my concentration, and Ive been able to stick at the homework instead of drifting off and procrastinating like I used to.

I was just wondering how bad the tablets are for me, and if taking about 4 a week would be really bad for my health.

Because of the time I take them, it has not affected my sleeping - I am still able to get to sleep at 10.30-11, which is when I normally go to sleep.

If taking 4 a week is too much, how many would be ok?

How do I know all this?

 

Well, I'm gay.

Hahahaa classic

As for shaving against the grain on the first go, did it take your skin a while to get used to that or was it instantly good? I think I might give it a try.