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Is it an option to move out with your other friend, leaving the one with the boyfriend alone? Maybe a last resort... and definitely a bridge burner =S

I cant think of anything really you can do about it except talk to your friend without really affecting your friendship

Perhaps with your new tenancy, involve her boyfriend in the discussion and try to work out a mutual agreement that results in him paying some money for living there.

I shave once with the grain (sometimes twice, depending how long it is) and then once or twice (softly) against the grain to smoothen it.

I use this:

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Which stops the razor burn lasting days, but does burn a bit when you put it on

Afterwards, I moisturise my neck (where I get the burn) and this calms it quite a lot and prevents bumps later on.

You cant really do anything... just give her time and with any luck, she will one day get over him and you two can go out

(btw... if she says she hates him, that doesnt mean she is over him...)

its not pick up lines as such that work, but pick up routines...

Dude... I know exactly what you are talking about. Exactly.

Dont bother being friends with her, you DONT want it. You said it yourself, how much it hurts being around her. It may seem like its so much fun to be around her, but you know the feeling. As soon as you leave, you just feel empty.

You will find someone else, dont think about her too much, instead focus on ways to find other girls.

I just want to even be her friend and talk with her a lot

No you dont...

it just made me feel empty and very very sad inside, a feeling as if my heart was sort of draining or dying

You just have to remember that there are PLENTLY more girls out there who are also very nice and great to talk to. You just have to go out and find them. There is no poing sitting around *waiting* for her to drop her BF and then *maybe* go out with you. That would suck, and make you feel terrible.

You know you dont want to be friends with her, dont try and tell yourself you do. You want more than that, but it wont happen, so you need to get over her.

Go out and look for someone new, dont keep thinking about her. At the same time, dont give up if you dont find someone as good as her in a few days, or a few attempts at talking to girls. This sort of thing wont happen overnight, but it will happen.

YOU DONT WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER. SO DONT KEEP DOING IT.

Ok, for starters Nemo - dont listen to ANY women about this. They all think that they want a really nice guy, but they dont know what they want...

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You are still allowed to be nice, but always put yourself first (to an extent, of course). If you dont like something, tell the girl to stop it. Dont buy her drinks etc.

Umm...

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As for kicking the habit, its only going to change with practice. Good luck

And another article...

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Happy reading :sleeping:

If you are talking to someone about something you have no idea about, simply ask them to elaborate on something they just said.

For example (talking to someone about basketball)

Him (knows alot about basketball: So how about them Knicks?

Me (who has no idea about basketball): Yeh how bout them. What do you think?

Him: Oh theyre so stupid... Isaih Thomas is a tard who has stuffed them up.

Me: What do you think is his worst move?

Him: Probably trading a massive expiring contract for Francis, who obviously wont be able to play with Marbury since theyre both shoot first point guards.

Me: Yeh how bout that... what was so good about the expiring contract?

Him: Well Knicks are already like $100m over the salary cap and they have no hope of getting back under it if they keep trading expiring deals for bloated contracts.

Me: Any other teams way over the cap?

Without really knowing anything, its easy to keep a conversation going just by asking them about what they said In general, people LOVE to talk about what they know alot about and will not give it a second thought that you *seem* to know nothing (even though it will probably seem obvious to you) and will most likely think you are actually interested in the subject.

Hopefully that made sense...

Are you two actually in a relationship? / were you? I either missed that, or you didnt say so...

Umm, I disagree.

That sounds lame and cocky.

 

If a guy asks to kiss me, I'd rather he simply said "Can I kiss you?" or "I really want to kiss you". With the former, I could nod, and then he could go ahead. With the latter, I could take the lead, or say "So kiss me."

 

It could be a cute moment.

 

If he said "You do want to kiss me, don't you?"...I would actually be turned off. It's not at all sweet or indicitive of him wanting me. I'd probably be confused as to what his motives were. Instead of being flattered, I'd be like "wow, this guy thinks he's hot * * * *. Does he just want me to reaffirm that for him?"

Ok then, read it this way

if you are going to ask, you say something like "Do you want to kiss me " dont you?

get it now?

if you are going to ask, you say something like 'Do you want to kiss me' dont you?

If you dont want anything more than a friendship, its fine... if you do, then it isnt fine.

If you want more, just stop being friends with her, distance yourself. Make yourself busy when she needs you etc.

It IS painfull being only friends, no matter how much you may think otherwise.

While I agree you will have to be firm with him and not give him any hope to hang onto, dont crush him either if he was that much of an important friend in your life. It took guts for him to accept and act on his feelings and do something about it. Hopefully he will have the same guts to accept that you said no thanks and carry on without any childish nc'ing or anything, otherwise what does that say about your friendship?

no...I would say crush him. Otherwise he will continue to continue being friends, always hoping for more, and that just plain sucks.

DiggityDogg: Is it worth asking the girl something like 'is there ever going to be any chance?' If she wont crush me, i need some way to do it myself =p

God dam... why doesnt the girl I like tell me something like this =(

In a few months I will be going on schoolies, much like spring break I guess, and I think I will end up losing my virginity there...

Only thing is, if I do it I can only see it being to some random person, and I dont know if its worth it... I dont really care about virginity as such, but like you, I feel it would be better to lose it to someone I really care about.

If I wait, it will be because I am scared that I will regret it later.

so if you dont really want to do it... why do it?

thats just evil...

all you can do is tell him who you really are and gauge his response

and maybe stop doing it?

ive done it, not for pleasure, but more to see what its like (muscle wise) to have sex...

I wouldnt worry to much about it, hes just trying to please you =)

When a guy hangs around a girl a lot, its a good sign that they are interested.

Wow, are you me? =P

At least its good to know that there are other people feeling the same as I am...

call her and say 'in the time proven tradition of getting any relationship off on the wrong foot, I have no idea who you are or what happened. Can i have my clothes back?'

im not really afraid of the rejection, im afriad of her not wanting a relationship with me

Arent they both exactly the same?

Best of luck though, heres hoping the card didnt get washed away.

it makes the five finger shuffle more fun... thats about it for me.