Lately I've been worried about my boyfriend leaving for college this fall, and this seemed like a good place to get some advice and such. So my boyfriend and I have been together for two years, and I love him more than anything; he's also my best friend. He's a year older than me, though, and he'll be moving four hours away for college. I know, four hours isn't so bad, but we talk almost everyday and see eachother several times a week, so it will still be a big adjustment. He is confident that things will work, and sometimes I am too, but I'm still very sad. Depending on whether or not he'll have a car and his job situation, he'll come back to see me every weekend to twice a month. Since I'm only seventeen, I highly doubt my parents will let me go to a large and relatively unfamilliar city by myself. I may be able to go with a friend, and I'll definitely be able to go with them. How often, I don't know, but my mom said that we'll be going back a lot more often. When I turn eighteen I may be able to go by myself, but still I don't know. The plan is for me to go to school in the same city next year; a few weeks ago he actually said he wanted me to go where he's going. I thought that was promising, like it showed he's committed to making this work. And he also said that there's no way he could meet anyone else, that he loves me. That made me feel really good as well. But still, he's going to have this whole new life and I'm afraid I won't fit in (he says he's sure I will), and even though he promised he wouldn't meet anyone else, it still is possible. I trust that he won't cheat on me or anything, though. Anyway, any thoughts, advice, etc. would be appreciated. Thanks so much.
