Hello all,
Well here it is. Met a girl about 3 weeks ago. First week I went too hard and was being to persistent and she sent me a text saying that I was being very pushy. Naturally I backed off.
I got an email from her yesterday and it head…………...
i replyed and said......
Hi Ann,
Just wanted to say a couple of things so I hope you don't mind.
Like I said yesterday, thank you for your honesty. It was very much appreciated.
I don't doubt that I was very persistent and determined that first week. I guess I was just really keen on seeing you again but I know I crossed the line so with that I do apologise.
When you sent me that message saying that I was being very pushy, it made me realise how much of an idiot I was being. I let my emotions take control of me and I am so sorry for that and realise what I did was wrong. I was actually at a coffee shop having breakfast/lunch at the time I got your message and when I walked out I actually said out loud " You Idiot " and someone who was walking past actually thought I was talking to them". Not Good. ;-(.
Look Ann, I did stuff up and I am very sorry for that but when you think about it, we never actually gave it a chance but I also know that by me coming on very strong wouldn't have helped the situation but I know how wrong I was in being like that.
I know that by acting the way I did, I did scare you off and that wasn't the ideal start but like I said, I realised I was a fool and all I am asking for is a chance.
All I ask is that we at least meet up for a coffee sometime and just have a chat just as friends and see how it goes from there and if you still feel the same then I will just walk away I promise you. Trust me Ann, I will never try and put any pressure on you or be as pushy as I was again but you will only know this if you give me a chance. I just think it would be a real shame if we didn't at least give it a go.
I don't think im asking for much Ann. Just a chance that all. I will not disappoint you I promise you that.
Please think about it Ann. That's all I can ask.
Thank You.
what should i do from here and have i done the right thing?
