Belgian girl

1. taking care of others and willing to share

2. I'm very honest and I guess I'm never mean

3. I can take care of myself and am able to be alone quite a long period. I'm trying to be more and more independent

4. I love the personal part and like people for who they really are and like to observe the way they act. I'm often a serious person as well

5. I can be creative and a little artistical but I guess I have to be in that mood

6. I'm almost in a good (enough) shape (my body)

7. I think I might say I'm healthy (no diseases only my astma), I eat healthy as well

8. My family has let me grown up in a good way I think, with giving me norms etc.

9. Several people say I'm a beautiful girl (and I prefer to be 'natural'), but outside doesn't mather that much to me

10. I love to learn new things and I enjoy little things in life

thank you for your kind words and being there for me

my aunt is quite OK at the moment, she can see it objective and realistic but it's still a bigg loss and our family do miss him

thank you so much

yes he's often playing a role to look happy and funny and to be social to other people and doesn't show his bad feelings then

he also seems to be not sure at all about himself (he uses other people their opinion after getting one, is saying things that contradicts something previous),..

so the next time I'll confuse him (guess 'again') to look happy and to *shine*

Would it mean anything that sometimes I can see him looking at me when he thinks I won't see him, for ex. when he's at the other side of the bus but I was more in front) or when I'm walking away when I get out of the bus?

and I wrote a card for her to put on the post today..

he died Sunday, in the morning (for me yesterday, maybe b/c of the time-difference still today for some people..). Not to write down with the meaning to get a lot of condoleances and good wishes but just to let it know so there's no need anymore to react on that part of this topic (though it could probably be usefull to other people to read) and to ask if there's something more I can do for my aunt. It seems the family will see her on Wednesday or the day after. My nephew said she sounded OK and strong but I don't forget it's possible that the reaction can come with some delay. She must be very tired and have need to rest now b/c she stayed with him in the hospital the last few days to take care of him (she has been primary nurse). Now my other aunt stays with her and the family has helped today with things that has to be done in function of the next few days.

guess you're right, Ilse. The doctor said it could be possible using an applicator but not every kind of applicater is possible to use at that area (for ex. the one I still have at home says not for use in the face) so I'll go back and hope she could help me to get the right kind so I don't have to let it freeze. Hope I'll be able to show a nicer picture the next time

Couples quite commonly have sex during menstruation.

 

 

 

It's certainly not a sickness. It's just a bit of blood along with other normal bodily fluids.

For me it won't be a problem, I mean, I don't dislike his fluids b/c I love him that much, I love about everything about him and would share so much with him so maybe I'ld even like it to be able to do it during period but I thought b/c of his explanation/reaction that it could indeed be a 'ugly' idea but now I understand it depends on the person (and maybe the person would change his mind..)

little offtopic but I'm a little 'surprised' a boy even wants to do it during this period (I mean, with all that blood. I proposed my bf(now exbf) to do it safe during my period (cause I didn't decided yet about taking the pill or no and thought with using a condom there almost wouldn't be a chance anything could go wrong by doing it then, but he didn't like the idea of that blood (I can understand but think that if I were in his place I wouldn't mind that much. I mean, I like hís taste (even if he get 'acid' up in his throat (from his stomack) or no mather what) and smell, etc.. And my plan was to take a shower before..)

Think the best is to take the morning after if that's still possible and maybe ask her how long her cyclus is (normal or not?) b/c mine has been 3months when I was younger (during about a year) and until the last time it was all the time about 6 weeks (I mean, then there would be less chance (when it's longer)but maybe doesn't mean to follow up less the advice).

let me know what's going to happen next

in my case I would be so happy if it would turn out like that (except that sleeping with other person(s)).

Maybe they just said that

Some people told me he looked a little depressed last summer and I guess this weekend I'll see him back (after about 3 months). I think that probably he doesn't want to show how he's feeling to me and doesn't want to look breakable.

can't really give an answer I guess but I'm very interested in what the other people will think about this.

In my case, I almost let it happen that my exbf left me, b/c I love him that much that I wish to have children with him but it seemed a little strange that he would stay with me during whole his life so I hope I might be with him.

not such a sweet thing to take a picture of, but maybe if it could make a visitor more easy to advise..

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thanks for the advise already

I have to go to a doctor to get new 'papers to take my medicins against astma' so I can ask when I'm there and next monday I've got to go to a medical building to get a vaccin against 'rubella' so maybe also possible to ask..

That's what I'm not sure of.. if it's a 'special case' b/c of it's on the nose.

some people told me you may not use it b/c of the area (nose and maybe face in general so only would be left over cutting frizing or burning it away).. but maybe you're right

feel free to add me at messenger if you have and if you like or to PM me if you think it could help you

must say i don't have the same background but in some way i can a little imagine how you must feel

for me sex became a kind of problem in my relationship but it was b/c i was very worried and also feeling ashame so i didn't let it happen though it was one of my biggest wishes to could do that with that person and finally he broke up and we've never done that.

i wish you a lot of strength and good luck and i think visiting this forum and explaining your situation is already a first step in the right direction.

guess with 'talking' about your feelings you can get more over it and that it's important to keep in touch with your bf about how you feel and that it'snt that you don't want it b/c of him (just b/c I'm afraid and feel sorry I didn't made it clear as much as I wanted to my 'ex 'bf. But it seems yours understand. All the best.

Dear readers

Since about two weaks I do have a wart on my nose (the underside). For me it's no problem but I understand that it doesn't look nice at all. It's a normal kind of wart, especially white and sometimes a little brown on it and build up at vertical 'strokes'. Does anyone has advice how I could get this away? I prefere 'natural'methods instead of burning of frizing (sorry for my bad english) of cutting it away. On the internet I found people writing about the inside of the cover of a banana, using olive oil, and some more other things (in every case putting through it every day and then it would disappear). Is there here someone who has heared about a way that worked or found it out? Please share your thoughts..

maybe if the person doesn't relax enough or 'span' the muscles so that it will get sore or feels paine caused by for example candida, it will prevent having it, I'm not sure.

yes indeed maybe it's b/c of being virgin

and in my case nails hurted as well sometimes i think, sometimes there was a little blood-loss but also possible b/c of being virgin

index and middle didn't hurt in my case

Sounds very positive and quite similar as the way I feel. Just stand open for different things and try to find things that belong to you.

yes maybe too hard or too far

only thing I know it could heard if it's big (diameter)/ too many fingers..

Think it's not that bad

or maybe she 'spanned her muscles' but I don't think in this case

maybe a little more carefull next time and see if it would happen again

think all the pain should be away in about 1,5 day

Yes, you look quite different in contradiction with two pictures ago. Seems you're taking more care of your outside.

Nice to hear it seemed to be a good day! Keep going on!

think breakfast should be the biggest meal during the day (don't know if it makes a lot of difference in left over calories but it seems logical that later on the day you won't be able to use them very much and in the beginning it will give you energy you can use).

Acids could burn fat as far as I know, so eating apples and citron could help burning fat.

I try to go yogging/running every evening

My friends were important to me, but I still felt lonely, especially when coming back to my empty apartment after being with them. I spent more time on campus, just to be near people. I've never cuddled or had sex, but I want someone special to be with, so even though my sex drive is making me crazy, I keep my patience (very vocally uncomfortable at times) because I know it will mean more to me to be with the guy I love. Hope for that does a lot for me.

Same here (but I've done cuddling and things that you can do before real sex comes)

'Latest news': They seem to be back together and he invited me at Messenger into a groupchat with people from his list that were saying things to me to hurt and in short: He would even prefer it if I die and he even wanted to visit me with that people who are now against me to do something to me..

Yes I think you should better not give in that friendship relationship too soon

no disadvantage for you if you give her time to miss you I guess

Maybe try to expand your 'own life' to prevent getting lazy and bored and getting into too much routine

Expand social contacts, practise sport if possible, search your own interests, become member of something, do something she could be proud of (and you as well). Guess it's the best to use your time for doing things you otherwise didn't find (enough) time to. Get an interesting person!