In the past, there have been at least a few attractive women who found me attractive and dated me. I was dating the same girl for the past 3 1/2 years but we broke up a few months ago.
I was pretty confident that I could find the woman I wanted (finally). I am in my mid 30s now, I am in good shape physically, I have a decent job, I am socially adept (I can talk with women fine and make them laugh etc.), told I am decent looking but even had a nose job last year because I was self conscious about my shnoze. I am not meeting any women at all. No friends of friends, no work connections (which I don't want to do anyway for obvious reasons), I can't stand the bar scene and anyway at this point I am almost the old guy at the bar. Even link removed which worked for me in the past hasn't gotten any hits, and that is what really gets me. When you aren't meeting anyone, you are making the effort to get out there and meet people, and no one seems to show any interest, where do you go from there? And how about the slow ego/pride leak that occurs when even link removed users aren't paying any attention to you?
Depressing, makes me want to give up.