Mavh25

If i was your current girlfriend and you were talking to a girl you were seeing while we split i'd be peeved but i would know i wouldnt have a right to, but id probably do the same as she is doing.

Does she still talk to the guys she was with? like you said, it sounds reasonable that you jsut would'nt ignore her in conversation, i think your just going to have to reassure her that shes the one you want. Do not make a point of talking to the other girl, yeah ofcourse talk to ehr, and don't always make a point of mentioning that you saw her, even though it may be the right thing, she would only think "why did you feel the need to mention that?" and it will escalate...

Elisette you'll have to re-add i dont know what happened

i dont understand the question, you know why she broke up with you... you listed the reasons that she probably didnt even mention

I've been in a similar situation, it really has to be about sex. If you never saw eachother for 3 years im sure you coped fine, so what is stopping you from doing that again? Im sure your probably thinking "but guys my age are stupid" but they are'nt they are how they should be, innocent

I know youve probably heard it all before, im even sure alot of people have said you cant be in love at your age, but i believe you can, and you probably are but that doesnt mean you need to act on it, not right now.

It really would be best if you didnt go there, he has a child and a wife and hes just trying to act on the fact that he has the attention of someone young and gullable like yourself, im not saying your dumb but it is nice and flattering to be appreciated when your that age especially by someone older, trust me ive totally been there.

Only i went through with it, and i can say its the one thing i regret the most in my life, i wish to god i had not done it. I thought i was in love and i was naive about it.

Hes liking your attention and he probably will want sex with you soon, even after the first time his attention wont sway, he'll probably want more, and if he doesnt... then think of what you have just lost to someone who never really thought about you enough.

I'm actually really worried for you, because i remember how i felt, it was addicting and really hard to stop.

Just please think about it, you may not believe it but there are good guys your own age out there, maybe evenslightly older. Pls just think about it

Dont cheat, and im sorry but is this the first time you have seen Taelor since becoming an item with Sara?, actually hanging out i mean?

It may be just that Taelor realises she does not have your attention anymore. Ofcourse dont stop seeing Taelor if she is a friend, but think abotu Sara, seriously. Do you really want to risk losing her if this is just an attention situation?

Ive done this to boys before, i say boys because it was when i was 16-17 granted, but i had the attention of a boy, then he realised he couldt have me and got a g/f and then i was that way "i really wish id taken a chance with you" so he split up with his girlfriend, and i was gone.....

bleh, maybe you just need to see how serious it is

Im sorry but no matter how long you waited, there would still be the shock factor when your friend found out, they may even jump to conclusions, friends ok, unless they did something bad to your friend...... then id stay away, but if all ended well then no reason why you cant be friends.

i had a belly button piercing and eventually it grew out, apparently its common but left me with a whole permanently, now everytime i see one it makes me feel sick! especially when people fiddle with them eeuurgghhh!

I have a tattoo.. i got it when i was 15 and crazy lol very much regret it

But on boys tats just look so typical, if ya wanna be unique nowdays DONT get a tattoo..... dunno bout piercings but id say none really

Ooooh Dako Dako Dako, everytime i see that dog, doesnt half make me giggle

I agree with the poster, i will never get married i dont think because it just doesnt mean as much to alot of people as it used to, and also the fact of how my mums marriages went. Nothings against my mum, just the men she was with, om not basing my future around it, but i just dont see it happening for me

just wanted to say, i really like your posts blender so realistic and heartfelt at the same time

Just, you were saying that basically you thought of the bad things, like the fact that SHE dumped you (correct me if im wrong)

I was just wondering, what should people do, if they are about to break NC when their relationship broke up because it simply had to, mutually, and NC is being done because it hurts alot to talk to the other. When they dont really have anything to focus on except the little arguments they had a coupla times, or they simply cant remember....

may hav a waterinfection?

what about those who split up for mutual reasons but realise their mistake? what about those who split up because they got a job opportunity abroad... what do they do if they want to break nc?

my goodness i was obsessed with matthew bellamy from muse... does that count? I agree with dako, to be in love with someone/thing doesnt mean you have to own it, enjoy that you felt it but realise you cant have it

i cant really say anything because im in a similar situation. But right now im trying to think of it as, im glad of what we had it was fun while it lasted so let it be, if it really was meant to be, it will be

believe me, ive had an awful past. My self esteem was rock bottom i tried many times to do silly things if ya get my drift. I never thought id ever be loved, or be in love in my entire life and then i met someone. Granted he wasnt right for me but i never thought even being as young as i am that id ever find someone.....

sometimes though Ross you need to experience things befoer you learn what you did, or do wrong.

Ya gonna have to take that risk, and if you dont you only have yourself to blame. I know its really difficult but with all due respect there are far more uglier men than you, your not even ugly!! you just dont give out a vibe that your approachable? i dont know, but ya really need to try, my god even get some dutch courage if ya ahve to lol.

Maybe just ask a girl, that you know for a fact will reject you, and you will realise that she is not going to laugh at you, and if she does that behind your back, it isnt any of your business so just get on with things. The word NO is not going to kill ya, it may dent ya ego but hey? even stunners get told no now n again...

It seems as though you believe everyone is shallow anyway, im sure if you got to know somebody your personality would outweigh any physical insecurities you have.

When i first got with my boyfriend, (patooey) i was self conscious of my feet!! and my arms because i had a skin condition, but he liked me, and he saw it and was like "is that it?" and you blow it up for yourself so much in our mind that i was like "you what??? why dont you think im minging?" lol

Ya really need to try, or noone else will bother

hehe, sorry slightly ya right i did word it wrong. He did use that line on me and i knew it was stoopid but still is a nice thought! i started seeing him after knowing him afew months though

Back to you Ross

thats the thing, i didnt fall for his line....

and Ross there are so many girls who probably have liked you, but themselves have been too scared to approach.

I used to be really shy, about everything, i couldnt look at someone without blushing lol.

Then i met my boyfriend now and he was perfect at the beginning n then it went wrong 2 yrs later. Im trying to say you have to do afew things wrong before you get to the right stuff

if your planning to marry this girl you cant just walk away, there is a reason that ring is on her finger and you need to rekindle that, you need to really talk about the situation. Sounds like she is making excuses while she is unhappy and cant put her finger on it, talk to her

surely if he asked you to go up there its not going to be bad?

Im not knocking anyone, but have ya ever thought of taking a deep breath and just walking up? i mean, i always think.. whats the worse that could happen? they say no? it wont kill me

I never said i jumped into the sack wehn he said that to me!

I did start seeing him but not till afew months later, and by OTT i meant he was too erm... how to put it......... soppy

lol your all knocking people who believe in someone having an aura? is that necessary?

An aura is a personality, but its the way of noticing someone has a beatiful personality by the way they present themselves yeah, which gives them a cetain glow, thats what i believe

I worked in a night club once, and 1 night a guy came over and told me i had a beautiful aura and that he just had to speak to me.

And i started seeing him, he was a bit OTT for me though lol