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I Had Written B4 About Him Not Divorcing His Wife. Thank You For The Advices I Got. Honestly I Think I Should Drop This Guy Cause I Don't See Him Wanting What I Want, But There's My Gut Feeling Telling No! Give Him A Chance, He Needs Time! (do Not Ask Me Why. It Just Does) So We Have A Great Relationship Most Days. But!!! There's Always A But. I Want More. We've Been Together For Almost A Year, And I Truly Love This Guy. If It Would Be Up To Me We Would Live Together But He Says It's Too Soon That He's Not Thinking About That Now And Makes It Sound Like I Should Wait. And There's Also The Drama About My Loving Little Boy. He Is A Very Sweet Boy. He Has One Of His Own But He Is With His Mom. He Told Me Two Days Ago That He Only Deals With His Son And No One Else's. And Whoever Is A Mother Knows And Feels Their Kids Should Be Taken In To Acount. We Have Only Gone Out With My Son Twice. I Sugested It Once And He Did Once Which Was The Only Time I Went Out With His Too. I Want And Need A Serious Promessing Relationship. He Is A Great Guy But I Don't Think We're Going The Same Way. How Do I Get Him To Understand That I Need A Very Suporting Sure Of What He Wants Man?

We Girls Love To Hold On To Memories, Sometimes We Don't Even Remember What We Have In The Box Of Memories. But A Picture On The Wall Most Likely Means She Still Has Feelings For The Guy, Or Might Regret The Break Up. I Had My First And Only True Love's Picture On My Dresser For The Whole Time That I Was Involved With My Past Boyfriend. He Confronted Me And I Said It Was Because My Four Year Old Son Saw Him As His Dad. But The Truth Was That He Had Left A Year B4 I Got Involve With That Guy And That I Would Have Given Anything To Not Have Let Him Go. Im Sure He Feels The Same Way. I Recently Put It Away. I Am Involved With Someone Again. And Honest To God!the Picture Can Be Down Or Put Away But My Memory Of Him Is Still There. (but They Are Different) Im Ok With My Current Boyfriend And The Memories I Have For That Special Someone Are Inocent,they're Just About Someone I Truly Loved. He And I Will Never Be Together Again. And It's Pointless To Have A Picture Of Someone Im Not Even With. I Think You Should Talk To Ur Girl And Ask Her To Please Bring It Down, Im Sure She Would Not Like It If U Had Ur Ex Girl On The Wall!!!!!!

I Agree Also!! I Posted My Own Issue Here. It's About The Same Thing But We Both Have Kids From Past Relationships And Mine Is Not Even Getting Divorced And He Does Not Even Seem To Want To Eventhough They Don't Want To Be Back Together. It's Fine If You Told Him, It Was Very Brave Of You And He Seemed To Agree, So Now He Knows What You Want. It's Up To Him To Pop The Question With The Ring In Hand And Do It The "traditional Way. Good Luck.

I Understand Trust Me I Know It's Early But At Least He Can Bring Me Around His Family And Friends. I Love Him With All The Honesty There Is And Ive Parade Him Around With All My Family And Friends And Invited Him To Spend Sometime With Both Kids And He Said definitely Not!!! Come On Who Would Not Want A Girl That Would Really Want To Spend Time With Your Kid Instead Of Making You Feel Like He Is In The Way? If He Says He Loves Me Beyond Belief He Needs To Start Showing Me Cause I Don't See It. "tiredman" Im Pretty Good Woman. Im Not Bad Looking, Fun, Not A Jealouse Freak, Hard Worker, Responsible, Clean, Very Loving, Give My Man A Lot Of Surprises, Im Not Controling, I Give Space And I Do Not Cheat, Love Sports, I Have Few Friends, Cook, And Best Of All I Have A Great Heart. I Know For Sure I Deserve Someone Good That Will Make Me Happy. I Don't Want The Marriage Now, But I Do Want To Know If He Has Even Considered It Cause I Don't Want To Waste Any Of My Time. Thank You For Replying.

Thank You For The Advice!! It Sounds Familiar, And I Really Do Hope That This Year Will Be The Year That I Come Around Family And Friends And Even His Son, Whom Is Adorable, I Loved Being Around Him The Only Chance I Got To. Cause If I Don't I Will Be Trying To Find Someone Else For Me. It Is Hard For Me, Im A Single Mother With No Family Suport And He Knows That. Im Just Trying To Find Someone That Will Love Me For Me And That I'll Love For Who He Is. That We'll Be Very Truthful And Confortable With Each Other. And Ofcourse Someone Who Is Not Scare To Want To Be With My Son And I For The Rest Of The Time That God Allows Us To. I Repeat Thank You For Replying.

THANK YOU!!! HE IS REALLY SEPARATED, THEY BOTH HAVE SEPARATE PLACES, AND YOU'RE RIGHT MAYBE IT'S TOO EARLY TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO HE MIGHT NOT EVEN WANT TO MARRY ME. THIS IS SOMETHING IM OK WITH DEALING WITH IF HE WOULD JUST TELL ME HE DOES NOT WANT TO DO IT. BUT HE TELLS ME MAYBE IN THE FUTURE BUT NOT RIGHT NOW. IM A SINGLE YOUNG MOM. IT IS HORRIBLE. I FEEL VERY LONELY!! SUPER LONELY!!! HE KNOWS THIS, AND IT HURTS ME WHEN HE DOES NOT MAKE A MOVE. IVE GIVEN HIM MY ALL AND I GET NOTHING IN RETURN. HONESTLY IM FEELING VERY IMPATIENT. I REALLY APRECIATE UR ADVICE, THANK YOU!!!

i've been with my boyfriend for 11 months. he is lovely and seems to love me. but he is still married, he separated from his wife 3 years ago. im 24, he's 30 we both have kids mine is 4 and his is 5. his is with his wife. i want to get married and he seems to be going very slow about that. he does not want a relationship with my son because he thinks it's too soon, i don't have one with his (eventhough we all four hung out once and went fine) because his ex and him agreed they have to meet the person first before letting the kid have a relationship with the person. i don't know his parents because he says it's too soon. he does know my whole family. we work together and everyone knows about us and how much we love each other. which i do feel he does love me. but i do not understand y he does not divorce her and y he does not make a move regarding us becoming more than boyfriend and girlfriend. please help im confused.