safari

Hi all, I fell in love with this person (SG) recently, who is 16, I am 17. He is a boy in 10th grade, and I am a guy in 11th grade. We go to different schools, and we met at this music rehearsal. I got his email address, and emailed him.. and to find out if he was going out said that I knew a girl that liked him.. I just wanted him to reply, and find out if he was already in a relationship.. Obviously I wasn't thinking this out carefully.. So, I got a reply that said, he enjoyed talking with me (which is good), and he wants to know what this girl looks like, maybe send a pic.. and he says he is interested in her... How should I reply? I was thinking of a few things like A. Say that actually this mystery girl is a guy to see if he is willing to go out with a guy in the first place.. B. Just say it was a lie, but try and keep up the friendship.. C. Can someone help me out with an alternative?? I'm sure some of you are experienced with this kind of thing more than I.. I've only been in a couple of relationships with girls and I hated it.. Obviously because I'm gay, but didn't really realize at the time. (or didn'T WANT to realize) Another problem is, I've been recieving all these emails from people I met at this music thing, (girls naturally) and they're all real pushy and want to know me well, when the truth is I would rather have one touch, one kiss from SG than date any of these people for a million bucks. I can't openly say I'm gay, since there are Christians school around here and conservative people.. Actually, the problem is he also goes to a largely christian school. Do most christian people have attitudes against gays? Help help help please.. any advice will be appreciated I love him dearly.. and I need your help..

hi, I am at a camp, and have fallen in love with a really cute guy 14 years old, 2 years younger than me. He is really mature, and is amazingly sexy and smart. He doesn't talk much, but when he occasionally smiles, it just makes my day. I know I have no chance, but I can't help but looking at him, or imagining kissing him right then and there. Has anyone had this experience before? I know it is impossible to have any relationship with him, since I'm almost sure he is not gay, but the urge is unbelievable. I have to really tell myself to stop staring at him. WE were on the elevator and he was so close to me, and my heart was pounding. He doesn't hate me, but I think only likes me as a friend which makes things worse! I need advice- and of course he doesn't know I feel love for my own sex also.......

Hi, thanks for the advice. We were semi-intimate today if you consider 'intimate' as kissing or sensually caressing one another! It was cool being real near him, and he didn't mind. but i think the mood was more 'playful than 'sexual'. I'm getting mixed signals. I swear I notice him taking glances at me when we aren't right next to each other, and we have these moments when our eyes meet, and I can't take my glance down. The glances we have are somehow 'longer' than those with friends, and seem to mean something, although i fear I'm making some of it up, dreaming. He's a bit on the shy side, but he likes to touch me. I don't know what to do. I have this fear he will tell everyone in the grade that I'm gay, and brake my 'status' at school and brake out a secret to everyone that I havn't even told my parents. I feel I love him more and more.. I keep thinking about him, and I don't have the same feelign towards any girls or guys other than him. what to do... what to do...

Hi, I appreciate the 102 views I have for my post, but I would really like some advice from those of you who are experienced! Even a little would be fine, I know it seems really silly for you, but this whole deal means a lot to me. You see, I am terrified to be in love with a guy! I am a student with the highest GPA in the grade, and I don't want to ruin my life in highschool forever.. if you catch my drift.. But, I still can't get my eyes off him. I should probably just keep it inside forever, but sometimes, when those hormones get high, and he's sitting next to me, I have this urge to kiss his beautiful lips! Anyway, what is the best strategy to go about dealing with a person, not knowing if he has ANY INTEREST whatsoever in me! I know I'm fantasizing.. What should be done? at my school, people do laugh about 'homos' and at least 90 per cent of my class wouldn't accept me I don't think! Should I approach him like a 'straight' man, just say I have a porno video to watch or something and kinda lure him in that way? Even listing some ways of going about this would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks so much!

Hi, I'd be really appreciative if someone gave me some good advice! Thanks soo much! I'm from Japan, and I think I'm gay or bi. I'm 16, and I love this boy in my class, or so I think. I'm really not sure.. I've had girlfriends, but I started realizing I liked boys more than girls at some point. I'm not all that bad-looking, and I've had plenty of opportunities to be with girls, but I never found it as exciting as what I feel for this boy now. Anyway, about this boy. I always think about touching him, and even when I brush against him in the hallways at school, I have this tingly sensation inside. I just can't stop looking at him! It really was quite a shock at first! I don't really believe I'm either gay or bi or hetero or whatever. I think it just matters who I fall in love with, and there are no real distinctions in my case. I've really loved some girls too. (And I really don't like (just my sexual preference) boys that act 'girlish' or act kinda artificially gay, or wearing bras and that kind of stuff! I can't stand that to be honest.. I like 'boys' as they are.. if that makes sense..) So, it so happens that we are setting up for a festival this weekend together, just by coincidence. We're working at the same stall. It's kind of my chance to do something with him, since I've only talked to him at school, and occasionally gone out with him with other friends. I don't know if he is straight or gay, but he seems to be looking at me at times too, and we've had several times wrestling and feeling kinda close. I don't know though, because I'm probably just fantasising most of the time. So, what is to be done? Is it wise to take him out to a movie, bring him to my house, and what should I do? ADVICE IS GREATLY APPRECIATED! btw, there are quite a few gays in Japan, so it is not as looked down upon or rejected by society as some parts of the US. homosexuality was quite common in Japan for a long time, until Westerners came. (a sub-note nothing to do with above, I feel fine about blowjobs, not about anal sex.. just does not seem "right" at the moment!! What are people's views on this? )