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Agreed melrich .. That's why no matter what you believe, it's so vitally important to find someone who is in agreement with you

Good luck coollady!!!!

Hopefully the new guy is better than that other one, I'd REALLY watch out for him, he sounds like he could turn abusive (overly possessive almost, telling you not to move near your kids... )

and hey if this date sucks, at least you got a good dinner out of it

Sounds like you need a good lawyer and a ton of counseling. Ask her point blank: Would she be willing to attend counseling with you? I'm NOT talking about marriage counseling, but just regular counseling for both of you for the sole purpose of being able to work together to raise your kids. She cannot have such hostility towards you as a parent, it will end up making your kids suffer.

I think you're jealous because although you don't like her, you don't want her to "replace" you so quickly. Seems like she got over you fast, which is exactly what she should have done.

Hun I'd be careful if I were you ... make sure you're at least using protection if you do decide to stay with him.. My honest opinion is that his behavior is at best shady and at worst dangerous, and in my experience, this type of behavior does NOT change.

In this case I don't think it would hurt to see a doctor. Your doc may refer you to a urologist to rule out anything physical.

Has it always been this way for you, or is this a new problem that developed?

Thats a good tip thanks

Yeah I think my biggest problem is the foodstuffs .. I eat pretty badly. Not HORRIBLY, but badly. I never had to worry about my weight and now all of a sudden I'm starting to realize that I really need to!

Yeah I guess I want to change my measurements

my waist isn't bad but my thighs are huge, and my arms could use toning

I just want to tone up and lose my thigh fat 118 and 148 pounds is ahuge range .. yikes .. this is why fitness confuses me.

Hm.. I think I weigh about 135-145ish so i'm trying tofigure out how much weight to aim for losin.. this sounds stupid but i havent stepped on a scale in years

let him pay it back, you'll regret that later.

No, they cannot press charges. Most DAs wont press charges without the consent and participation of the victim. The problem she has is not a potential rape charge for her husband, but why on earth her mother is hanging onto that after all this time.

I'm about 5'6".... anyone know how much I should weigh approx?

Many people have degrees in economics and don't do anything related to that! I know people with degrees in economics that went to grad school for law, political consultation, even mba...

honey i'm a sociology major, I won't be leaving school as a Sociologist

Ummm... you're dating a guy that tells you about how pretty his ex gf is and how they spent time together .. ?? Why?!

I am confused too.

I don't know if she should let this one go .. as much as I would love to say that, I have known a lot of guys who cheat before their weddings (don't ask me why) and it's often with an ex girlfriend.. Anyways zucchini if you are still not trusting his answer, I would follow that instinct and stay on guard.

I don't see anything wrong with what he did. He was faced with a crisis and he chose to educate himself about the only option going through his head. I also thought about an abortion when I became pregnant. It does NOT mean I don't love the beautiful boy I have now!!! Everyone panics when an unexpected pregnancy is discovered. I wouldn't hold it against him.

However, as above posters mentioned, you NEED to be on the same wavelength about your feelings on abortion. It is NOT fun to have someone pressuring you to have an abortion if you're adamantly against it.... nor is it fun to want to have one yourself while other people are calling you a murderer. You need to figure this one out.

Something tells me they've done this before.

Some advice from a fellow upstate NYer (in Rochy!!)

I agree with fellow posters. There doesnt seem to be a point to try to work things out. She doesn't seem committed to the idea at all. She can barely even talk to you now as it is.

I wouldn't ever marry someone that didn't understand a pressing need to take care of my parents. Especially since you said that they have done so much for you. My parents and I definitely don't always get along but I would never leave them alone in their old age, and if I was married at the time and my husband didn't get that, well he wouldn't be my husband for very long.

Wow, a lot of fellow Indians on this board I guess

Yeah I'm Indian too, it hasn't been an issue really... although I hate to say it, a lot of my girlfriends have racial preferences so I don't know what it's like to be an Indian guy.

Jeez

What are you even posting about?!

I doubt you have anything to worry about... but I hope this teaches you to be extra careful next time

If she got the morning after pill on time, she is most likely fine. Yes, starting and stopping birth control can mess with your cycle... but the only way to know for sure is to take a test. She DID take that MA pill, right Monk?!