BlkOnBlkTeg

Thanks, I'll have to try that. I've recently talked to some friends about it and most of them require clitoral stimulation and some sort of emotional connection with the person. Where as in for me, the best orgasm I ever had was when I was detached emotionally and it was basically you know... like spank me and pull my hair BS. I even went as far as asking my own mother! [lol] And she said she too needs to feel something for the person. Hmmm... who knows????

No... sex toys are NOT a turn on but a huge turn off for me. Like masturbating doesnt do anything, I like another person there. I am comfortable with my body and love my body but I just dont do it for me. I need a man there, otherwise, nothing. Completely nothing. I just sit there like "Ehhh... ok... this is no fun." Fantasizing does nothing but make me horny and when I touch myself its just not cool to me.

No I have not. No matter how good they were and no matter how much I did it to myself. Nothing. I just dont think I have any sensitivity there for some odd reason, same with my nipples.[-(

I LOVE IT! The harder the better. Spanking, pulling hair, love love love love it. Whats there not to love?

I know that exact feeling. Everytime I saw him I wanted to lunge at him. Its normal. But hurts a little.

Dont be ashamed you cant talk to him about it. If you care that deeply, pour your heart out, not only would he appreciate you coming forward but I'm sure he'd understand if your feelings are mutual. - Goodluck.

Well... This is my first "thread" ever and first time joining a forum ever. I like to share what I've learned with other people so why not on the internet? Anyway... I've had alot of sex. [Haha... wow that sounded bad.] Let me rephrase that... I've had alot of sex with a few people. I love sex. I labled the first half of this thread "Compliments in the bedroom" because I've always gotten them from whomever I was with. I've even been called "psychotic" in the bedroom. And "The best sex I've ever had." has been said often. BUT, although they are enjoying themselves and I am as well, getting me off is like burried treasure. Though sometimes the sex was so good I kind of didnt care if I got off. I mean, I cant even masturbate, because I cant even get myself off, only through intercourse can I achieve orgasm. And lets say for example, 3 of 10 can only get me off. Why do I have such trouble? Oral sex does nothing. No matter how good they were I never really could say I've enjoyed it. Some will say orgasm isnt everything, but for me, someone who has a hard time reaching it, I would like to experience it more often. Any advice? -BlkOnBlkTeg