why me

hi i am not gay, never had any experience. I am straight all my life - but there are times, where i feel towards same gender or transgender. What do i do in a situation like this? How do i approach them?

just a little note - the reason why smoking relaxes everyone is because of the deep breaths you take when you take in a puff. Better off taking deep breaths and living, then taking in crap and shortening your life. *i am not an adult, so dont think i am lecturing anyone*

something to keep in mind - asking doesnt have to be done by words - it can be done by actions. I dont how a woman would feel about this, but as a guy, i would think if you just wait it out, be patient, act like friends, and try to earn extra brownie points by doing this and that, the picture will paint by itself