hello out there..
so its been a week, and i feel like I am over it, but it was all so confusing.
just some background, I am 30, was dating a girl for a yr and a half, she was beautiful and we had some great times..but some bad times too, throughout it all, except for the first few mos i guess, she seemed distant and later kept asking for space, but then would want to hang out etc..mixed messages and no communication were standards.
so lately she wanted more and more space, i tried to comply, last thurs she came over and told me that she wanted us to work things out, didnt want to break up, got teary, but also told me she was having dinner with afriend from out of state, this was a weekend i was going out of town.
as a side bar, she had stopped sleeping with me for a few weeks leading up to this..
so we can all put 2+2 together, and when i asked her right there if there was mroe to it, she acted shocked and mde me feel paranoid for even implying it (this was a guy i knew she had the hots for).
well i come home to find out that i was totally right in my concerns, she spent the weekend with him, not sure to what degree but assume she slept with him or definitely fooled around if nothing else...
so it was humiliating, we ended it on ugly angry terms and i stormed out.
i sent her a note saying i dont hate you and i am letting you go , just to move on for me, seh got back to me saying how bad she felt about the whole thing and even still wanted me in her life/friendship etc..and needs alone time to digest events.
so now i feel mixed anger, an humiliation, but some part of me still loves her and feels like we may cross paths again..but that gets stomped down by my anger..she wanted to have her cake and eat it too..and did..and now im left feeling ok and over it, but still woozy...
thats my story, thanks for listening.
i know it was bad when we were together, and with this other guy i really cant fathom it, but i guess some part of me still feels like we are right for eachother, i guess thats natural at this phase of things..