albatross

Thanks for your response - I generally get the above comments from one guy in particular and I am reasonably sure how he feels by his body language, but my colleague put doubts in mind that I too was reading too much into it. Incidentally, her sister gets similar comments from one guy friend of hers, and I think he is interested in more than friendship as well. Appreciate your comments and just wanted to know what others thought.

Guys - I am interested in your comments. I have been complemented on my looks and clothes and receive positive vibes when around guys. I take this that they are interested in me in a sexual way. Examples are "you are looking really good these days" and "I really like that top you are wearing" and "have you lost weight" and "Is that new because I really like it on you". I was talking to my female colleague last week and she said her sister was receiving complements on her looks and clothes, but she told her sister not to 'read anything into it' as the guy was just being nice and wasn't flirting. This made me start wondering if I am reading too much into things, or am I on the right track?

I have been divorced 4 years - my x left me for another woman. I am falling for someone at work. I would appreciated your opinions (I think I already know what your answers will be (lol). This man 1. Always comments/compliments me on how I am dressed. Told me how he liked my hairstyle as it made me look younger 2. Just told me that he "enjoys flirting with me" (I love it too) and that I am looking 'good'. 3. He blushes in my company 4. Always makes eye contact with me. I was married over 20 years and have spent time alone getting over my divorce (which I now am). People have told me I am 'glowing' - would he know how I feel. I have been out of the 'game' for such a long time that I don't want to make a fool of myself and get hurt in the process. It all feels like a drug and I am getting more and more addicted. however I am not sure about a relationship with a guy from work in case it doesn't work out. I am finding it harder and harder to restrain myself, and its a battle I feel like I am losing, but he makes me feel wonderful. Neither of us have done anything else but flirt, but these last few weeks, I feel things have changed and the chemistry has been ignited. My feelings are overwhelming me. Any comments would be appreciated. Help.