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when i say the responsibilties of taking on someone elses kids. i am saying that i am going to have to contribute to the feeding, housing etc.
yes i know she has been looking after them for 4 years, she has done a great job and im certainly not saying she would be "dumping" anything on me.
but i dont think i am the type of person to not contribute in some way, if i did take on the responsibility.
i think the fact that the children will or even have become attached to me just adds extra pressure. i really dont want to mess them around anymore than they may already have been.
theres no "ill give it a go and see if it works" here or at least i dont think there is.
as kw1202 says
i have discussed this with her or at least we've tried to talk it through. but i still have concerns. she has a link to this discussion so she can read what i am saying for those times when i perhaps cant explain myself to her.
Hi freckilii by the way!!