JustMeMyselfI

I also had these thoughts and anxiety over the direction of my life. I think I was experiencing a quarter-life crisis. I just had a breakup in the middle of the covid-19, feeling so alone, couldn't travel anywhere even to local destinations due to travel restrictions and I have no idea when will everything go back to normal. A lot of realizations, from family to health and to what I really wanted to do in life, I am almost 30yrs old yet I haven't traveled to any countries. Thus, I traveled abroad when the travel restriction was set to loosen. I visited Singapore, Malaysia, and Thailand. I really had a great time and it was fulfilling. These are really good counties for first-time travelers. Though SG is quite expensive, Malaysia on the other hand compensates for it because, from accommodation to food, it's cheap. Though, I only stayed for a night then jumped to Thailand where I stayed for a week. You can opt to plan your itineraries alone or you can connect with a local guide for more confidence with your trip like https://gowithguide.com/thailand or be a spontaneous traveler which makes it exciting. In your case about marriage and having kids, I think the right person will come at the right time. Since you go out, you'll meet someone eventually. Just keep on exploring, and get out of your comfort zone so you will not regret it.

This friend of yours is not for keeps. You can just cut ties with her.

Couldn't agree more. He has plans for himself and you're not included. Just leave.

He just wants to hook up with you and doesn't want to commit. I hope that you'll find someone who's serious and reciprocate your love.

Definitely, he ghosted you. Perhaps he found someone and felt so guilty about it and decided not to reach out to you though he's already back. And I agree, nobody is too busy unless something happened (God forbid).

Congratulations!!! Good to hear that everything works out. Please don't stress yourself and stay healthy so you can take care of your baby.

Instead of surprising him you can just travel somewhere alone to reflect what happened and have time to heal emotionally.

Run.

It's better to ask him if he's available to meet rather than surprise him. If it's negative then it's a sign that he's no longer interested.

*finger-crossed* 😅

If I were in your shoes, that'd be my last straw and end our relationship. I think prior to this, there were other issues that piled up until this romantic vacation.

Sorry, yes, this is supposed to be a piece of advice to the question.

It's normal to have issues in a relationship. It's your reaction to these issues are those that matter. Try doing things together, chores, errands, try dating like it's your first time again!