MagicRooster

Thanks for the opinions. Of course, I’m unhappy that it suggested he’s not all that interested. Things were left at such a high I’m surprised it’s come to this. I guess I’ll wait to see if he gets back in touch around Saturday but will keep my expectations low and start focusing on moving on.

I’ve been reluctant to post here as I wouldn’t be sure of the response but I’m really unsure about how to proceed. I’ve been dating this guy for around 5 months now. It’s been a rocky road as he told me he’d been hurt before, so I’ve tread carefully and let him take the lead. The last time we met he took me to an upmarket restaurant for my birthday and told me how he thought we had chemistry. He went abroad on the other side of the world for business/vacation and has been gone for around a month and a half. I reached out twice to make sure he was ok and having a good time and he would respond with pictures and messages; also asking me how things were at home. His last message was that he was looking forward to seeing me when he got back. It’s been 3 weeks, he gets back on Saturday and he’s been mute. I decided not to send another text as I had reached out 2 times already and didn’t want to inundate him. I’m not sure if I’m overthinking this, I don’t know if I’m supposed to wait for him to get in touch and move on if he doesn’t bother, or reach out to greet him when he returns.