lunaqtpy

I just don't seem to be funny to guys, and I'm not witty or pretty. What can I do to get a boyfriend. The only guys that find me funny are 1.) a guy my best friend likes 2.) one of my friends who is really nice, but doesn't seem to like girls yet (he's a little immature) What should I do?!

I want a boyfriend, but I already have an online bf. He is great, sweet, cute (I've seen pictures), he sticks up for me, but I just want someone I can hold. Someone's shoulder, not a ba-ling from the instant messanger saying "I know you'll pull through." He means well, there's just so much space between us. One time zone and 2 states away if far enough not to be able to see him. He also doesn't know what I look like and that's a problem because the way I talk and the way I look are complete opposites. He is also older than I am, only 2 years but that's enough for him to be interested in other girls, one's he can touch, kiss and share true emotion with. I've just recently been harassed (verbally) by this guy who I used to like, and my online bf stood up for me and really scared this guy off. I just want to meet my "savior" so badly, it's really killing inside. Nothing means more to me than a true friend, he is that and more. He isn't the bravado type of guy who acts strong, but gets shoot down when the going gets tough. There are guys at school who appear to consider asking me out, but social status differences are a prevention. I'm so low on the social ladder, it's not funny. But I really don't care because my friends aren't superficial. I just want to go out on a real date, not on to an online chat room! I know I don't make any sense, but can you please help me!?

I had an online bf, but we have conversasions that consist of "hi, sup?, k I g2g bye" and that's basically it, sometimes the weather comes into play, but things have changed so much that I feel like I'm talking to an online bot. I try to make it like it was by mentioning old jokes and stuff, but it just isn't helping. My only silution was finding another person online which to talk, but the jokes weren't the same and I realized there really was a person on the side who was completely different from the person I shared so many moments with. I also have parents that are restricting. They don't want me dating or they want to meet him and have a friend with me on dates. It's like they don't trust their own daughter. I used to pray that he, I'll refer to him as Jason *even though it's not his name*, would come online just so I could at least say "hi". he was a big part of my life for about 3 months, but all topics ran dry... I still want to know how to fill in the cracks he left in my heart. I do believe not love, but online feelings are real and genuine. I know I might not be helping, but I think you should just talk to more people and try to talk to her some more. Ask about things you never talked about, or about how your life is better now because of her and that you really miss having decent chats with her. I do believe you guys will be fine, and about the cultural dating restrictions...... ditch them like the above you should make yourself happy with whatever girl you want, this the new millenuim and you don't always have to do what your parents say. You could try telling them you don't wish to follow old traditions and ask their permission *parents love it* to date other people, and state clearly that you'd like permission, but it is your mind is made up and you just wanted to let them know. They will feel better that you didn't go behind their backs and they found out too late. Even if they are furious, you should do what you feel is right.

I've really liked this guy for about a year and a half, but I know he isn't interested in me besides the person to talk to during strings class. We have a lot in common, but I think the fact that he's taller (by 1/2 foot) kinda throws it all off, and the fact he is interested in the more popular (bigger breasted) girls. I hate my size because most guys aren't into the skinny short opinionated girl. I am very outspoken and will say pretty much anything to anyone, except guys I like. I go to all the dances *interschool held at war memorial/community center* and he's never there. I dance with other guys who are nice, cute, and funny, but they never seem to match him. What can I do to a.) get over him, b.) tell me I like him, or c.) try to hang out with him other than in school I'm really at a loss here please help.