alright, i dont think he was serious bout that, like i think by sayin that he just meant that girls find him hot, hes tryin to relate wiht ya. soo i doubt hes gay,as for why hes bein mean, well idk wat to tell ya unless i heard ike everythin thats happened for awhile... but to just give general advise bout likin best friends... try to make it obvious that u like em, guys like to know theres no risk in askina girl out, and knowin u like him will be that safty to him.