aloneforever

I built a gym in my room, it takes up more than two thirds of my room but its worth it. It took me a while to start losing weight but I lost about thirty pounds and now I'm pretty slim and all I did was lift weights, but I guess the results might be different for different people maybe you should get exercise at home or jog at night if you're bothered by other people.

It might be the case, the last person I asked out was fat and ugly though so it might not but I'm in college now. You should just try to let it go if you're sure that nothing is going to happen, besides if he's shy then how do you know what he's really like?

I've decided I'm going to do it whether or not she rejects me, I'm starting to get pretty hardnosed anyway I should be used to it by now so theres no problem.

What do you do when you ask someone out and get rejected? Especially when you put a spectacular amount of effort into impressing and making that person feel special and happy? I've got an event similar to that up and coming and I'm getting a lot of cold feedback, despite that I'm still going to go through with it. Getting back to the main question, how do you deal with rejection?

What if its just that more poeple who encounter that kind of problem decide to post it? Probably not, just my two cents.

Yeah, hate to sound harsh I know how you feel wait for college then things like popular and unpopular won't exist.

I wouldn't be giving that kind of advice unless I knew about it first hand, Angie I know how you feel, I know you've heard it all before because I have too. Killing yourself won't solve anything. If anything it will make things worse, think about the poeple that care about you and get help.

I think online dating isn't exactly the ideal way to meet anyone, there is a lack of physical expression and all the other person can see is what you type for example you would have no idea if the person is really what you think they are, and even if they are then what are you going to do about it? About all online relationships eventually boil down to "long range" relationships which don't work out anyway. In my oppinion, online relationships can be serious but for the most part they facilitate people who are unable to get into a relationship otherwise.

Just be really good looking, or really rich. Failing either of those you should try briefly mentioning something that you're good at, don't steer the conversation becuase then it'll seem kind of showy and she'll notice it just mention some of your skills or hobbies and if thats what she's into then she'll be impressed, or interested otherwise if she isn't interested in what you're into then you probably wheren't a good match anyway.

Not a good sign, you've repented maybe she'll forgive you, hope for the best.

Its something you can only learn with practise, let him know you don't know how if you do it won't be a challenge.

I hate to break this to you, but even if you and cameron get back together what makes you think it won't happen again? I think you should let him go and find someone who:

1. Won't cheat on you, or allow rumors like that to be started.

2. Won't Talk behind your back.

3. Break up with you and use you like an object.

Have respect for yourself over everything else its the most important thing right now, being obsessed is actually something you can control its a matter of willpower you can get over him if you try hard enough.

Ask her out, if she says yes then you won't really have a need to get over it. I know its probably going to be extremely hard but you have to do it. Confront her after work and tell her how you feel or failing that write a note and leave it where she'll find it if she's got a car then put it under her wiper or something. If she says no then I'm sure it will be hard for you but you'll live even though chances are you won't really feel like living after having an experience like that but give it time and I'm sure you'll fall in love the same way, just with someone else.

pretty soon you'll be attracted to someone else and as quickly as those feelings set in they will leave.

how do you tell her? its easy enough just open your mouth and let the words come out, if thats too hard you can augment your shyness with chemicals or just get someone else to tell her.

You know, thats the most horrible thing a person could ever do I don't think its a question of whether or not you love her its a question of whether or not she loves you.

He just doesn't want to feel bad, thats all.

I understand its probably going to be hard for you to turn down a deal like that although it may be hard, its going to be even harder when her boyfriend finds out and the sex suddenly stops. Seriously altough it may feel like you're punishing yourself in order to punish her bear in mind that really you aren't

in the long term it will be a very good thing for both of you.

you'll find someone else and everything will work out.

I think crying out of fear might be somewhat counterproductive.

you might lose him becuase you're afraid of losing him, which would be kind of ironic.

If she doesn't feel the same way, then why did she kiss you? I think you should make your own judgement, but fair warning you could get hurt.

Go for it, its worth a shot unless its more important for you to be friends with him.

I know how you feel, I was in the same situation once, I was really close to this girl and a lot of poeple thought we where going out we where so close. One day however I started to have feelings for her, and let me tell you. BIG MISTAKE, it was the worst mistake of my life. I just liked her becuase it was easy, I was so stupid. After I told her how I felt she started to use me like a tool, things might be different for you, I hope they are. Anyways point of the story is if you ask her out and if she says no which hopefully she won't make sure she treats you like a person.

aren't you happy with your marriage? Isn't one enough? Start thinking about other poeples feelings.

you want to know whether or not she likes you, I think the fact that she does have a boyfriend should be a good indicator. Wait and see if they break up and if they do then you should "console" her.

ask her out, it can be torture if you don't know and even if she says no at least you won't waste your time trying to get her to like you anymore.