LondonCallingYou

yeah i wouldn't saying anything about paying for his clothes, but if i had to i really would do it. if he wants to go and feels like he wants to look good, but can't i'd help him out. I'd do anything to get him to come.

Homecoming soon to be here. Friday, I took a chance and decided to ask a guy to homecoming. This guy i so happened to like. I like him a lot actually. He told me that he wasn't going to go because he didn't have any money. I told him that he doesn't need money for homecoming. If he showed up in jeans and a T I would not care becauce I just want to be there with him. He apologized and thanked me for the offer. I had this really disappointed look on my face when he said it and i tried not to have one, but it came anyways. I then had to start walking away at the end of the convo because I was about to cry. I didn't mean to either. Before I asked him after the game friday he was looking over at me like the whole time I had break. After halftime since i am in the marching band. Do you think that he said that he doesn't have the money because he doesn't want to go with me? Or Because he might be shy, or really no money? I think theres a reason to it. i really do. But like when i talk to him and I look into his eyes gah, i feel something so great, its like all my fears never exsisted. The thing is classes got changed 3rd week into school and i no longer have any classes with him nor do i see him through the halls. Only at games now. Should I like write him a letter letting him know how i feel. To let him know that it was ok that he said no, but if he wanted to talk to call me. I dont have his number or a e-mail. So a letter is all i can do unless he calls me if i givehim my number. I just want him to know that i don't care what he wears and that if he needed it i would help him out with the money if at all possible, im trying to stay cheap as well. I want him to know that i love the way his eyes glow. Why I like him and why i want to get to know him more. Should i try this again? I really like him and I will do anything and everything I can. What should I do? Thanks

Yeah you can ask her, and usually with a girl and can be obvious, but not always.

OMG Guess what! I called him yesterday, and he said that he was glad that I called. And we talked for a while, man... theres just somehting about him..wow. Anyways we talked for a few minutes then i ended it since i was at the mall and i didn't want to not be able to listen to him. So yeah we talked for a few minutes at the least 15. He was like yeah well call me my phones always on. I mean he was like yeah I guess I see you later when school starts, but call me. I didn't think he would say that! Well I'm just gonna call him today and wish him a happy birthday. Yeah... it made me happy. I'm gonna ask him if he wants to hang out at the mall saturday. Hopefully he'll say yes, and can come.

well talk to him i mean what is it exactly you want to do

I see, well would he have called you?

Well myabe he does like you still and needed time to realize that. It does sound like it a bit, but you can never be sure unless you talk to him. Did he call you before when ya'll were broken up too? Wait a lil bit and see if what he is doing continues, if it keeps up I would ask him. You can always mistake him missing you, and wants you as a better friends, but you wont know unless you ask. To me though either way it good because you will still have him in your life. If your not ready to be in a realtionship thats okay too, be friends. Maybe something will happen later and you might want to be more than friends. Or friends with benefits, that works too. I hope I helped. Good luck, I know you probably love him a lot and I know how you feel.

OKay heres the thing, I will try the crush thing when I see him. Though we have been friends since2nd but not like best friends, just friends. We were ALWAYS in the same classes, I dont know how that worked but thats how it was. So that how we keep in touch and I might call him once or twice a summer before school started again to see how hes doing a stuff. Thats about it though. He does have a cell phone now and I could call him to see if he wanted to hangout at the mall or something. I just don't know what I would say. I don't want it to sound like a date either, i just want to hang with him outside of school and get the chance to know him outside of it and for him to get to know me outside of school. Before school was out he asked me if I could burn him a cd. So since i stole his phone and put my number in it before that, I told him to call me and remind me. He gave me this face like, woah call you i dunno what to say kinda face. The face that girls might get if we talk to a crush and totally embarrased ourselves or something, like redish pale kinda thing lol. So I was like or you can txt me.....so he did. Do you think that was a good or bad face? And like he does tease me like a said... but without me knowing it before i really realized i liked him I found myslef flirting with him, like not meaning to, but I was. I got to the point to where I would like touch him a lot like on the shoulders and the back. At first he was like idk he almost didn't want me to then he didn't care. I dunno if he was doing it to keep me happy or what, but i dunno. I have done that crush thing before though to think of it. All he did was inore it i guess. No respond or anything. I wasn't even to really able read his face either. So basically its like I think he might like me, or he may not. So yeah. I guess that was all extra info. I dunno how many ppl will actually read it all, but yeah. I guess the main thing I need to know is what do I say when i call him. Thanks.

okay, sounds good.

Okay, I shall try that..

Okay well hes a mumbler, hes always been a mumbler. Hes always talking to me I mean hes my friend. Ever since we met hes made joke about me, and all that kinda stuff. Then he sorta did it this year, but not as much. He just seemed more like intrested?? maybe... this guy can read me like a kindergarden book. I have know idea how he does it, but he does. Hes always making fun of me for being short and he will be like hey remember when we were ._____ and now ____ that kinda thing. Hes always making fun of me for my english hertitage. Something, but he makes me laugh, I love it, and I love they way he can read me. Okay the best friend thing. Well in my case it took me a while. I don't know how it works, but i mean I never thought I would like him, never. In the past two years though I dunno I just kinda started to like him, it wasn't a lot, but then more and more. Being friends for so long and knowing eachother and stuff, he has everything I want in a guy. I just realized that too. Just something I fell into. Its just hard to tell since I have know him for so long that I mean yeah... i don't know. Yeah... thanks..

Okay this may seem quite simple to some, but to me its a lil hard. I need to know the main ways guy will show a girl they like them. Like how will their voice be? How will they talk differently to you? What type of body language will they use? That kinda stuff. I've been friends with this guy since I was in the 2nd grade and I told myslef that I would never find myself liking this guy, and now its like woah I like this guy! So yeah most say you will marry your best friend and we are good friends. So I don't know. Please help me out. You guys are awesome. Thanks!