roo7_dubai69

hi all, i have been betrayed frm my partner who i have a relationship with for the last 6 yrs. now he is in jail for some cases and i discovered his betrayal when i went to collect rent from one flat he has. there, i found that girl who rented the flat and she just was shocked to know he was in jail and asked her why she is very concerned and she said I KNOW HIM VERY WELL WE HAVE A RELATIONSHIP FOR THE LAST TWO YEARS.. when i spoke to him he seemed not to care about my feelings and even denied his relationship with her then confessed in anthr day. when i tell him am hurt he will keep quiet and will not bother him self to give me reasons. all what he said" she chased me, she is the one who loves me". he is not honest in telling me his motives and suppose that i didnt discover all his affair i would be just a fool in the relationship. he seems enjoying what he is doing and doesnt feel sorry at all. she told me he tells her that he loves her and proposed marriage but she refused. he even told her that he broke up with me just to live with her!! he likes to tell lies and everybody knows that. please help me heal frm this cos a month passed since i knew about his betrayal and still have hurt>> we were supposed to get married at the end of this year!!! its really a shock and i used to love him so much.

if u cant forgive him its difficult to carry on with him.. if u still love him then u need to change yr behaviour. u must 4give him in order to continue yr relationship.. u need to build trust without it u cant step together..

hi, i've been with my partner for 6 yrs now. he has his own job but he is always in debt. even if he finishes one he will fall in another.. i tried to explain to him that this is putting pressure on our lives but he find excuses like i wanted things to that way but it went in aother way.. i cant deny that i blame him alot and always bring back old issues.. am i tryin to control him and what to do with his mistakes i cant afford it and i became recently so vulanerable to anger so easily.. one can learn frm his mistakes but what i dont understand why they keep doing the same mistakes on and on.. i end any conversation with him with a fight! what to do???