sportslover185

Thanks for all the help guys. Well she has been on the pill for over a year now so it's not within the first few months here. The pill has worked in the past for us and normally, with the pill, her period was pretty regular. Thats why i was a little worried. The worst part in all this is that she left to go to South Dakota for the 4th of July and I am here in Minnesota without a way to get a hold of her. So i am just sitting here waiting for her to call me with any new news. ITS HORRIBLE! But thanks for all the help.

i am 17 years old and my girlfriend is about to turn 17. She kinda went on the pill because she had a messed up irregular period i think, But i thought the pill helped to make it regular. And now she missed it. So i dunno if i am overreacting here?

I'll get right to the point here, short and sweet. My girlfriend is on the pill and we had sex about one week before her period was supposed to come. Then 2 days before it was expected, we had sex again, but she was off the pill. So we used a condom, but she missed her period. Is it likely that she is pregnant? I didnt think it was easy to get pregnant so close to your period? We used a condom and everything. I thought the best time to get pregnant was about two weeks before your period? What is the likelihood that she really is pregnant? I'm kinda worried here and a lil scared.

I am 17 and i have fallen deeply in love with a girl who already had a boyfriend. i was waiting and waiting for her to dump her man, and after four months she has finally done it. I know she loves me, but she is still taking it very rough. she was with this guy for 2 years. I hate to see her in pain like this. It just seems to me like she still loves him. i know she loves me a ton, but my fear is that she is going to end up going back to him. she says she just needs some time. he knows they are over, but he still comes down to her locker every hour to see her. he says to her he just wants to be friends, but it seems more to me like he just can't let her go. i dunno how to handle this. what do i do? is she gonna want to go back to this guy if i dont make him get out of her life? is it safe to just let him be her friend, or is it going to be harder for her to let him go then? please help me.

you are right about that. I will have to be her friend. It has happened more than once and i know she is scared of him. i want to handle it myself and confront him, but she tells me not to because she doesn't want me brought into it. But i told her that doesnt matter, i only want her safety. SO you are right, i need to tell someone. should i confront the guy hurting her though?

Here's the deal. I am 17 years old and i have fallen for a girl who already has a man. The thing is that she loves me, and not him. She is scared to break it up with him because they have been together for 2 years. It tears me up to watch her pretend to love him. When i see them kiss, i want to just believe it's a dream. It is a couple weeks from prom now and she doesnt want to make it akward for them by breaking up now. But i am to the breaking point. I have been waiting for months and i dont know how long i can handle this. I cry and cry every night and can never fall asleep. I know she loves me, but why doesn't she dump him? I also recently found out that since i came around, her boyfriend has hit her. She made me promise not to tell anyone, and i won't. I feel like she deserves so much more and i tell her i can give her that. I can't understand why she still doesnt want to not hurt him. I mean look at what he does to her, but shes still scared to put him through pain. I guess sometimes it just gives me the impression she doesnt love me enough. I don't know what to do. Do i tell her it is time to pick between me or him? Or do i let this ride until after prom and hope i dont go crazy? It is tearing me up every second and i dont want to lose her by forcing her to break up with him. What do i do? I am also scared that when she breaks it up with him, he is really going to hurt her bad. What do i do? Wait? Or make her choose between the two of us? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!