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I feel like I dont know my ex anymore and tat scares me - i mean I know what he is doing, and everything but I have not heard from him in a while and i am thinking I am still in love with him and i would lve to see him again but I feel like I dont know him. Does that make sense? i miss him so and i see his friends around and tey alwas tlk to me and stuff... but it is like he does not want ot know at all. Help what do i do? He said thathe wanted to be friends and know?? I want to be able to get to know him and for him to be part of my life. I want to get back together with him but am not sure how? Help! Do ex's think about their ex if they have not had contact in a while or do they feel relieved??

should I text him or leave it as this NC thing is killing me!!!

Hi, me again. right this is so hard - been over a month since I last split up with my ex, and i have text him and stuff and he normally- it is always me doign the texting, but he nomrally replies straight away but the last time i text him i asked him if he still wanted to come over and he said that yes but not sure when, i text him again saying that could he let me know as i am kinda busy. he then text he would speak to me later? this is now going back to Saturday - How soon is later??? Is there a time scale on these things??? I have not text him or spoken to him at all since then? should I text him again or leave it?

yeah that is why i am worried.. he has a go at me one min because i say i am movin on and the next.. i hurt inside so deep and he still has things at my house but if he will ever pick them up..... he knows that i am not materialistic as we are both students, but it came out ..... what do i do now?

hi - need advise please. What happens if you really love your ex still , text each other etc... and would love to get back together with him as he was so special to me and dumped me for no reason... still have not had complete closure. He gets funny if I talk about moving on but on the other hand he just wants to be friends? well I think I have made a mistake - I was talking to his work mates the other day and they said i looked really happy and beautiful.. and how was i doing.? They asked why we broke up and I said my guess is as good as theirs... and that he was a nob, and his loss and then I said I was going on a date later with a guy who has an audi TT, two motorbikes, etc... will this get back to him and if so what will he think of me? He thinks I still love him but have not text him snce yesterday and the last time i spoke to him was last Thursday. What will he think and is this good as I would love to get back together with him.

i sent him a text - he has not replied. I basically said that it is a month today and I am stronger, I hope your okay and hope to see you soon maybe. and nothing. Argh have I blown this NC thing allready?? It has been a month since we split but we text each other and stuff, but it is more me doign the texting and now he wont reply to me. What does that text to you mean? Is that pushing him further away and what do I do now??? Help

God today is so hard for me - it is exactly a month when my ex broke up with me. I do miss him and i wouldlik etosee him again to try and sort things out bu I dont think he wants to.. we do text each other but it is normally me who start sthe texting. He means so much to me and it is so hard... i might light a candle and think of the good times ..... as he made me so happy. How do I get him back??? I love him so, but not sure what he thinks of me anymore.... i am meant to be going on a date later on and I have seen this guy three times befoe but then whenever I am with him I think of my ex.. please help me should I contact him today or leave it??? I just wish I knew what he was thinking.

hi i have not spoke to my ex now in over a week, but we are texting each other - does this count? Or is this against NC too?? He text me a message last night saying that he is still coming over, and i did not reply back to him? Should i??? or what should I do? I would like us to be a couple again as this is killing me being apart from him as I love him so. i am now back to eating by the way and sleeping okay....... even though I did drop a stone and a half..... I am working on it!

I think we broke up because of uni - we are heading to the lsat two months of uni and got so much work to do - and also we were arguing not a lot but enough, he told me that love is not enough and acts like I dont want to know me know and keeps saying we are friends no matter if i tell him that I love him. Have not done this now in two days. I text him and he normally texts me back staraight away but left it on Sunday that he wouls peak to me later or something and he has not called. We were together for over a year - he was four years younger than me and does not know where he is heading in life. whereas i do - I am continuing Uni and know what I want to be when i have finished. But apart from that - he text me on sunday and said that he wants to be friends and that with a rel it is not happening just yet - got too much on.... confused. He said last week that he would come over this week but he would let me know now i have no idea what to think. when we were together he kept saying that in twenty years time we would still be together and have kids etc..... now he wont text, wont call etc..... unless I do. I would like us to be back togeter again I really love him

have not heard from my ex now in two days - we used to text each other everyday and he told me on Sunday that he would call me soon as he still has stuff at mine. So when do you think he will call? or do you think he will just forget about the rest of his stuff? He has books, films, pool cue, here. And he has towels of mine and some jewlellery, if he calls i will do the i am so busy thing that i cant answer his calls. do you think that would work or would that push him further away?? I do love him so much.....

Hi I really need advice- I have split from my bloke about three weeks ago and we do text each other and we met up last week and we were laughing and joking and he thinks we are friends but he knows how i feel about him - ilove him so much, but he said it is not the right time and love is not enough for him? I do not understand that and then he gets moody if i say i am going to move on with my life. I going to do the silent treatment from now on for about a minth and see if he will come back but then that way too I will feel stronger in myself. He knows that as a result of our break up I am anorexisc- I just cant eat, or sleep, but he seems not to care. What do I do to wish him back into my life? We broke up because of arguing

Right here are the text messages: Please someone help me! ME: I have hope that we will be together again,, as i care about you deeply and that I know where i went wrong. i just cant accept the fact that we are over and would like us to have another chance ME: I do love you deeply, but at the end of the day I realise you dont feel the same HIM: I told you how i feel i just want to be friends ME: Okay, you know how I feel, but I guess its time for me to move on HIM: Yeah I did not think that you would waste too much time in that ME: Yes i care about you deeply but i hurt but you want to be friends only. You used to tell me that you loved me everyday was that a lie? and i did not mean that HIM: I never lied to you about that, if you believe that then go to h**l. Thing is though it was not enough ME: Yes and i still have hope that we can make this work HIM: Its not happening esp at the moment. I have all ready said I dont have time for a relationship at the moment esp with anyone. Look I am at work I will call you later or something Help please -what do I do????

he broke it of with me - he has just text me and said that love was not enough, and he is relly busy at the moment so he does not have time for a relationship. How do I make him see other wise? i sent him back a text and said that love does not die, and hopefully we will work this out, but i am still going to go out, and have fun. What do I do???

I have recently split up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago after a year together. Yes we were arguing but not very often and we are heading towards the end of university so got a lot of work to do, but I am so heart broken. i am so in love with this guy and I dont want to accept its over - I have so much hope for us to be together as one again. i know that when we were together we spent so much time together and communicated through text messages, also with me drinking it did not help. i have stopped drinking now and trying to get my life together but i miss him terribly. We do text each other but it is normally me who starts it, and he always texts me back straight after. i made a hiccup last night and i text him saying "that i would like us to gicve it another go before its too late. I know it was me that caused the problems and for that I am truly sorry. i do care a lot about you and I dod miss you, i just cant accept that fact that we are over." he has not text me back at all, and i am in tears ... please help any advice????? i dont want to give up on him at all as i love him so....