Rugbyboyo

Hey to cut along story short, about a month or 2 ago my ex and i broke up from a 2 yr relationship, i admit i loved to bits and it hurt i found out she had depression (Again) so i stuck by her as a m8 cause she loved me the same back but she didnt want to hold me down or upset me whilst she had a rough period, so i found a new girl nd life was gettin back to normal when my ex went mad cause she hated this girl i liked she wanted me to get rid of her or lose her, so i went mad back and said p*ss off nd walked out, (i thought that was the end of it, but i was so so wrong) she started pourin her heart out to me, sayin stuff like she never stopped lovin me etc and is gettin better, as a fool i said ok id stick by her we met up nd she annoced she wanted to get back with me, i said lets take things slow cause i dont trust you after what has happened and she wanted to take things slow, but then once more she started sayin she was on edge if its goin to work and if she will hurt me again. im going to give it some time to see if it will work out or not, but i feel like she is usin me cause she doesnt want to loose me all together. Plz some1 give me some advice, cheeers

Hey, i posted a while back about my ex and me, we went out for 2 yrs nd were madly in love, about a month back she went cold with me and we decided to become mates. i knew her better then anyone and knew something deeper was up, she went to the doctors and was diagnosed with depression (again).So everything was ok, i was hurt but iv got back to 110% i found a new girl i like and life was going good i talked to my ex about it and she started going off on one sayin she cudnt be mates cause she hated the girl, then other stuff got brought in. everything i had let go that p*ssed me off came back and she relised how much she hurt me. she wanted me to give up a gd mate (the new girl) for her so i would be there for her i stormed out and hateful txt started flyin, at this point she started to break down in tears but the past 2 months she has had no emoutions nothing and this got to her she started sayin she still loved me, and only went cold on me to not hurt me as much with her mood swings, she said she needed me there cause she only lets me in no one els and she wouldnt help herself other wise everything that i thought she had become this, go out party care free attitude towards was actually a front she said, i said to her i wouldnt do anything with girl if she promised she would start to help herself and not kick off at me, is this just runnin back to her cause i do still love her and would want her back as my gf but i would be there for her as a m8 also but i feel really weak for givin in, am i stupid, is she tryin to keep me as a fall back buddy? someone help! lol cheerz.

Ino how u feel mate, same thing has happened to me..we said we would stay mates after bout she treats me weird, like bein cold. And i am where u are at now, take a trip back to hell or keep drivin forward, if she wants to treat you like a mate tell her that you cant be thinkin of her, and the past at the moment. if she repsects you as a mate that much she will agree, just take your time to get back on your feet (to 120%) dont go straight out there again with girls cause now i hav and so should u of learnt a imporatant lesson out of the whole thing! just keep drivin forward with you life and maybe one day hook up and say hello when your ready but time will tell! good luck m8 hope it helped...

hey i hope someone can help me im really clueless, About a month ago my ex and i broke up from a 2 yr relationship we were both in love and it was great, i admit i acted a jerk at times nd i took her for granted but i got really ill and had alot of time to think things through and i relised how much she means to me when i started to show her this she went cold wit me i could normally read her mind and actions before she did them but she blocked me out, she became emoutionless over life in genreal, she fell out with her mum, gave up on her friends and gave up on me, now she is hangin bout with people she doesnt trust or tell them anything so they think nothing is up but i pointed out something is wrong and she noticed and said she will get help she used to have depression and i think and she thinks she has it again, but the climax of all this she chose to be close mates with me cause she didnt knw what she wanted now im confuzed in what to do a part of me says to move on yet another part is thinkin if i stick by her mayb we will get bk together but she has changed so much i feel as if i dont know her at points and feel like im goin to get hurt again, iv had ex become friends before and its not worked but i love this girl i dont want to have to give up but i feel like she wont help herself, and the most confuzin bit is she wants things the same as before minus the sex and huggin etc i cudnt deal with it if i saw her with anotha boy im really in a mess please someone help...