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I had to post to this. Man, hold your horses, there's nothing wrong with you because you haven't had a girlfriend. I'm 21 and I've never had boyfriend. I'm an attractive, sweet and interesting girl. Do I want a boyfriend, heck yes! But not just any boyfriend, I'm want to be with someone I really enjoy being around. There's a difference between just wanting a boyfriend/girlfriend and wanting to truly get to know someone special. And I know the kind of pressure I'm sure you're feeling from others to have a girlfriend. But just take your time and like others said, it's kind nice dating once you get out of high school. You grow a lot emotionally and I think you're better prepared for a relationship.

Thank-you so much guys!!! I really appreciate your advice, it makes me feel so much better just knowing that nothing is "wrong" with me. Thanks again

I hope you guys can give me some words of advice. I'm 21 years old and went on my first actual date last night. I was quite nervous since I had never been kissed before and I had a feeling that this time was it. So that time eventually arrived and it turned out to be completely different than I had ever thought it would be. It's nothing like I had ever imagined kissing to be like and I have to say I didn't enjoy it. I kind of cringe at the thought of it. Which I find really discouraging because I had dreamnt of the moment for so long (and that's probably a big source of the problem.) Maybe my expectations were to high, on the other hand I don't think I felt that strongly about the guy I was kissing. But now I'm worried that I'll never enjoy it, please tell me it gets better! Thanks