that's very true..thank you for the input! i think if he could show me over time that he was serious and didn't want to be angry at everyone anymore, and that there is great things in life, that I would get back with him. We have such a good time together..we could be on a desert island with nothing and have fun together, but he just can't give himself to anyone now.maybe for a long time..i'll do that,, maybe he'll realize someday..but until then...i have a date friday night!!lol