femmegrl31709

I know how you feel. I have had 2 long relationships....1 for 9 years and one for 4. People always cheat!!! Men or women! My first g/f cheated on me for years with one girl and who knows how many times with EVERYONE esle. But she and I have been brokeup for almost 5 years and she still wants me back. Not happing b/c i know she won't change!!! Then last week I found out that my other g/f cheated on me with our friend over a YEAR ago! He told me and then she acted like she hated me b/c of it. She did the whole calling me fat, ugly, and anything else she could do to downgrade me ! I know its for the best that we brokeup but it hurts! Things will get better for both of us....you just have to figure out if you want to continue living with a lier. Good luck and make the right decision.....believe your gut it wont lead you wrong often.

I don't understand anyone!!! Last Sat. my girlfriend and I brokeup after 4 years b/c I found out she had slept with one of our close friends (a man), 2 days later I find out she is seeing someone else. How could she do that? I moved out of town and can't eat or sleep and she is seemingly happy with someone else. All I wanted from her was for her to treat me special and to make me feel loved. I guess she just didn't want to do that with me. I have been telling her for awhile that I wasn't happy b/c of the way she treated me and the fact that she would call me names and try to make me feel awful about myself. She just couldn't stop it..... Why didn't she let me go a long time ago? She always had a problem with the way I dress and the girl she is with now wears a lot more revealing clothes than I do. I am having a really hard time and feel like my whole world is falling apart! What shall I do? Not only that she is just sooo mean...when I left I wasn't able to get all of my things so she took them to someone else's house and put them outside in the weather. So now I have lost 3 of my dogs and prob. all of my things. What kind of person does that? Who did I waste four years on?