SkyFire

Don't go.

If you do go back with your ex, you will end up breaking up again in a short amount of time. She dumped you for a reason bro.

Dude, no excuses.

You dont want to be his friend, end of story. Who knows what will happen man?

People make mistakes.

Call her and apologize to her.

The guy wanted to get the chick away from you cause he likes you, lol...

This dude sounds like a huge drama queen, are you sure you want friends like that?

A question about the guys who get laid the MOST, with ANY kind of human female.

 

What type of personalities do these guys have? What's the recipe?

 

Does having a "warm and fuzzy personality" count? How do you describe a guy who is "warm" anyway? Incredibly happy?

guys who get laid the most are the guys who are confident in themselves and who don't give a damn what women think of them, the guys who are sexual, masculine and exiting.

But let me tell you; getting laid not an accompishment my friend.

Dont get too drunk dude, it can seriously affect your game.

Plus, hangovers aren't a good thing.

Could be 2 things;

Shes bored with her BF and wants you

Or, her bf's not giving her enough attention, and she's just messing with you to make up for it.

I say go for it, if taking chicks from bf's is your kinda thing. I would personally wait until she breaks up. But judge by actions not words.

Dude, listen to me.

Dont plan on anything. Go to the party, and go with the flow. Usually when you plan before something like this, it never happens as planned.

Just have fun.

I am personally against it.

I still talk to some of my exes on occasion, but only when I see them around.

you cant really be "friends" with an ex, you are bound to either fall for him again, him fall for you, or both of you fall for eachother.

Just curious, I am asking for the advice of all, in your opinion, If you are really are in love, isn't it worth fighting for? I mean, isn't anything you care about worth fighting for? From what i've read and what i'm beginning to feel, nc is slightly like giving up, isn't it? On some level i am aware the argument can be made that nc is really taking matters into your own hands, but on another plane isn't it like saying I've already lost, and i'm not strong enough to show you i am willing to go to whatever end to wake up next to you everyday.

 

i appreciate all answers, opinions, advice given.

 

1000 heads are better than one.

Everything's worth fighting for if you do it for the right reason, think about this

There's a reason behind everything.

"To every action, there is a reaction".

I don't believe in such a thing as luck.

However, it would also serve a purpose to look at other people's mistakes, learn from them, and keep yourself from making them. The knowledge is always out there, whether it be from our parents or friends, but most of us, however, chose to be stubborn and ignore the advice of those who've been there, and stumble head first into that same problem, which could have been avoided if we'd only listened and payed more attention in the first place. Then again that's just human nature.

Excellent point. That's how I came to learn alot of stuff out of life, looking at other people's mistakes.

However, I concentrated this post solely on the point that as long as people learn from THEIR mistakes, don't feel down about them and try harder, they will succeed.

Pretty nice

Also, be spontaneous. If you have an idea to do or say something, dont be afraid to.

Learn to be funny.

Loosen up your body language; head up, chest slightly out, good posture, etc.

I disagree - I think it's common sense and logical reasoning.

 

You fail - you evaluate, (where did I go wrong) - and you procede.

Logic and reasoning?

Dating isn't like math. If you haven't noticed, there's alot of illogical things going on with it.

Dating is a game if you see it so. If you fail and get shut down (rejected), you don't think that it's the end of the world and keep going for other girls.

Haven't you ever heard the phrase "you have no game"?

Let me rephrase. Game is someone's skill with dating/attraction.

'Game' - is that what dating/girls/attraction etc, is to you, a game?

In a way, it is a game.

"game" is someone's ability with women.

So many people are scared of making mistakes. People are afraid of being rejected, of failure.

There is always 1000 excuses to facing up your fear. But, someday the time WILL come when you CAN'T run from fear, when it's now or never. Time when you can't run back to the forum, post about your problem, and go back. And THAT time, you will be absolutely helpless.

One of the biggest things Ive learned in life, is not to be afraid of mistakes and failure.

Without mistakes and failure, you cannot improve or grow.

Of course, when you try to change your old habits it will feel unnatural and weird. But you are trying to change, for the better. In the end it will be worth it.

When it comes to girls, believe it or not but I've gotten rejected by alot. It is the fact that I make the best of it, and learn from my mistakes, which makes me improve my game.

Somewhere down the road, you will stumble. When you become better, people will get jealous of you and try to bring you down. There will be times in life when life has beaten down on you so much, you feel like you can't go on. But you can't. You will pick yourself up, and you will keep going.

It all depends on the way you look at things; if you see failure as FAILURE and not try again, then you will fail. If you LEARN from your mistakes and keep trying and improving, you WILL eventually get where you want to be. All it takes is perseverance and the right attitude on life.

So don't be discouraged when you fail or make mistakes; learn your lesson from it, and continue living your life, because you only get one.

no dude. You simply... got a pimple on your penis. Happens to me too.

being a tall guy (6'0), it doesent reallyl matter for me. However it is a turnoff when a woman is taller than me (rare).

I advise that you don't have sex, because you ARE still only 13 and your bf is not much older Im assuming, and I doubt he is responsible enough at that age to handle it.

Kids having sex at the age of nine is not going to happen unless humans somehow evolve, reason being is because they don't hit puberty until about 12-13.

Cant get much more clear than;

"I really like you, but I dont want a b/f at all right now."

When a girl says taht, 99 % of the time it means she doesent like YOU

I'm just fed up of girls and having to ask them out when i only get a no. and also why can't some of you girls ask us out for once?

Suck it up.

Stop blaming girls for your personal problems. Rejection is something that has to be dealt with.

Was she your girlfriend?

If so, this so called "friend" is not your friend.

If she wasn't your gf but simply a girl you wanted, then she picked your friend over you, then ooh well. Don't get pissed at your friend about this, just move on and find other girls.

What do you need our help with?

Ask out the one you like more.

Um... if your girl is a straight chick, she should be rather turned on

Hm.

You're right, cardio doesent help bulking.

Running is not a part of bulking, since it takes alot of calories and more than size, gives you endurance.

Choose one or the other my friend. Compromise never helps anyone.