dazedandconfused16

I met Fred about 8 months ago! We started dating about 3 days after we met… he was a sweetheart! He called me everyday and I seen him almost everyday!! We broke-up because my cousin told me that he was cheating on me. I found out afterwards that he did not cheat on me. So, we began to talk as friends… for 6 months we talked everyday, either on the phone or on the internet!! He became like my best friend… I could open up to him (and still can) I trust him and I FELL IN LOVE!!! The second time we began dating it was ok… I never got to see him, but I talked to him and chatted on the computer!! Eventually he stopped getting online, and he was never home when I called, so we broke-up!! But it didn't keep us from retaining our friendship and it eventually led us back together!! He ask me if I wanted to come to his grandma's to visit him (as a friend) and of course I wanted to see him, it had been 7 months!! So, we met at Rite-Aide anyway, to shorten this, we ended up dating before I went home… this time the relationship went better… the following Tuesday after we got together him and his friends and picked me up and we hung-out all day!! After that… he disappeared again!! Well this time I gave him 3 weeks to appear back in my life, but when he didn't, I, of course, broke it off for the third time!! This past Saturday I talked to him on the internet and we talked about everything! He told me stuff which helped me understand why he continuously disappeared and we just talked forever!! Well we might end up getting back together, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea, I mean with our past in all, I'm afraid its not gonna work again, but then again… I really love him and I really wanna give him another chance!!! He told me that if we decide to get back together he'll make sure we see each other at least twice a week (which would be the weekends when I'm in by his grandmas probably) and we'll talk everyday!! What should I do?? Should I believe him?? I really do LOVE him I just don't know what to do!! {If you have any Questions or what any more info email me @ [link removed[/email]}

Well i didn't get the answer i wanted... he said he didn't know if he liked me and last week sometime he said that i deserve better than him but he doesn't seem to understand that i don't want better i want him!!!

He came down my house again yesterday, but he still hasn't ask me out!!! The way he smiled at me, everytime he looked at me, gave me chills and still gives me chills when i think about it!!! He's not in school today but i think I'm gonna call him from my dad's tonite and ask him if he really likes me and then ask him if there is ever gonna be something between us, ya know!!!

I started liking this boy about 3 weeks ago! His name is Quinn! About a week after I started liking him I gave him my number! He called me Saturday; we talked for hours about everything. It seemed like we were getting closer and closer! When he ask me what I thought of him I told him he was cute and cool… then I ask him what he thought of me… He said that my personality was awesome and he thought I was sexy!! To me that sounded like him telling me he likes me, right? Well he said that we should hang out sometime!! So the following Monday (which was this past Monday) He stopped down my house and me and him talked for a little bit on my porch!!! Tuesday, he called me and ask me if he could come down, I said yeah, of course!! And his friend, Cody, got dropped off at my house and we all 3 sat there and talked for a bit, then we walked up Quinn's house for awhile… it was boring, but I didn't mind b/cuz I like him and I'd do anything (even be bored) just to hang out with him, ya know!! Today is Thursday, I only talked to him for about 5 mins yesterday, but I can't get mad b/cuz he's not my boyfriend and I can't expect him to come down everyday!! (I know that)!! Besides he said we should hang out sometime… not more than once, right?? Now, I'm confused, he talks to me, waves to me, smiles at me and acts like he likes me, but he won't ask me out!!! I'm scared to ask him out b/cuz what if I'm mistaken and he doesn't really like me? I'm very afraid of rejection… I try to flirt and make sure he knows that I like him but he just doesn't seem to get it or he doesn't care?? He told me, the Saturday that we talked, that he is shy, is that why he won't ask me out???? Or does he just want to be friends??? Please Help???? ~*~I'm so confused~*~