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i talked to her and we're just friends. I didn't have to ask - she told me how her boyfriend really is a nice guy and asked if i found anyone new. I guess i missunderstood everything. But i'm glad to have her as a friend at least. Oh well...on to the other girl, and i'm sure i'll be needing advice on her pretty soon. Thanks.

I was thinking the same thing but i wasn't sure. She got pretty upset when i said it. She asked me how i can turn my feelings for her off and like someone else. So i guess she really does like me. But, she said she sees me as a friend. At the same time, she said she thinks about us going out. She also said she wanted me to ask her out a long time ago. Her friend tells me she really likes me a lot. I don't know what to believe! She's been really confusing and sending me mixed signals. I don't know what to do. Would asking her about this be a mistake?

Thanks everyone. But i have another question - would it be okay to be into another girl? There's this other girl i used to like and still do and she's single. I wouldn't want to pass an opportunity up with her. But i jokingly mentioned her to the first girl and she blew up. She seemed jealous and asked how i could do that to her, stuff like that. But if she doesn't like me, why would she react that way?

i agree that you should tell him how you feel. Its obvious that you really like him and really want to be with him, so i don't think you should hide that anymore if it means so much to you. I know what its like to really want to be with someone and its really hard sometimes. Maybe he's known girls who just want to be friends and perhaps he thinks you're the same and you're just being nice to him. I know this is common advice around here, but if you don't tell him, you'll end up regreting it in the end. I went through a similar thing, only you have it easier because you're the girl! If he "used" to like you, he probably still does. So don't worry too much and good luck!

yeah, i figured it was a bad idea! I wasn't going to do it, I just wanted some opinions. I wouldn't do that while she's involved. I know its wrong, but i only asked because she doesn't seem to happy with him and i really do care about her. I'm just really confused with her a lot of times and don't know what i'm supposed to be doing. I've never been in this situation and I really want to be with her. I've also never been so close to a girl before. She's different than girls i've dated because they weren't serious. I'm affraid i'll mess up somehow. Anyway, thanks for the input and warning

Hi everyone. Well, this girl isn't my girlfriend. I've known her for ove a year now. We both like each other, and she wanted to go out but i didn't know, and now she's seeing someone else. I've asked her out and she basically said we can't because she's got a boyfriend and stuff like that. The thing is, I know she likes me too, even her friend has told me. She's been having problems with her boyfriend, he's been treating her pretty badly and she's turning to me lately. We've gotten really close the last few weeks. We've opened up to each other and talked about some personal things. She said i make her feel like she can trust me, and that she usually doesn't trust anyone. She also told me how much i mean to her and a lot of things like that. I've told her i like her and care about her - that was around the time this started so i think she liked it. I've never had this with anyone before, especially a girl that i really like. We used to be distant and she's always shut me out, now she's totally different towards me and we're getting along really well. My question is, would it be a bad mistake to tell her i love her? I'm not saying doing it, i'm just curious. I really do care about her a lot, i've liked her since we met. I don't think saying "i like you" is enough because she means a lot to me and i have feelings for her. I want to her to see this and understand that her boyfriend is no good (he really isn't, i'm not just saying that b/c i like her) and i have strong feelings for her. What do you think? Or does this girl even like me as more than a friend? i can add more info if needed