junior_1013

How should I go about asking my girlfriends dad for permission to marry her. I want to be traditional and all but here is the problem, all of her family is against me and they don't like me too much. I pretty much know that when I ask, he is going to tell me no. Her and I have had our problems in the past in which we have always worked them out and the last time, her dad told her that he didn't think that was a good idea for her wanting to work things out. Some of her family told her that if we did get back together, that they would not speak to her anymore. We are pretty much hiding it from everyone right now, but I'm sure they all know. I really don't know what to say to her father and what to say if he would tell me no and that he wants nothing to do with it. If anyone has any ideas, please help!!!

To all that replied, I just want to say thank you for the help and advise. Everyone has made me feel a lot better. I will keep you all updated with everything that takes place. I wish you all the best of luck with everything you do!!! Thanks EVERYONE!!!!!

Me and my g/f just broke up a few weeks ago. I ask her if she would give me time to think about everything because I was unsure how I really felt about her, kinda like questioning myself if I love her. She agreed to give me time, but since she has left, I found out that she is talking to another guy. She doesn't know that I know that they are "together" but I do. I have talked to her for the last week and I have told her that I do love her and that I want to be with her. She tells me that she loves me to and that she wants to be with me, she said she doesn't want to get hurt. She is now telling me that she needs her time to think about everything, in which yeah I did agree ( only fair ) We have been talking for the last week and the last two nights we have spent the night together. Of course, everyone knows what happened those two nights, not a lot of sleeping going on. Anyway, I don't know how to feel seeing how I have ask her about this other guy and she is telling me that they are just friends......but I read other things that he is sening to her that she doesn't know about....I feel like I'm in competition with this guy. How long should I give her to make up her mind about everything?? If anyone knows, Please help....I'm hurting very bad right now!! Thanks for reading!