Jezza

2 successful reconciliation stories: 1. My mate met his girlfriend on friendster (before facebook) when they were both 18 years old. They dated one year. It was LDR and too hard, they broke up on good term. They went NC for 4 years. Dated different people. In 2009 (25 years old), they both relocated to Sydney for work. They both working in the same bank! They bumped into each other and started a brand new relationship. They got married 2012 (28 years old). I attended their wedding. And their son is now 3 years old. 2. Both my mates dated for 6 years and suddenly the girl couldn't tolerate my mate bad temper. At that time we were sharing the same apartment. My mate often cracked at her. No longer romantic. Pretty much complacent. I witnessed the whole thing. It was awkward as. She dumped my mate and jumped into a rebound. My mate did all the wrong stuffs such as attempting to commit suicide begging her did scrapbook all those sappy stuffs. I was with him the entire time. He drank too much and was hospitalised. But he further drove the girl away. She was so cold. They separated for total 8 months. He did proper NC for 4 months. I helped him moved out from the sharing apartment. They still saw each other at work every other day but my mate did not talk to her at all. My mate at that point also found another job so he didn't have to spend so much time at the same job with the ex. 8 months later the girl broke up with the rebound because he was completely opposite from my mate. He was a player and not the serious type. My mate also improved himself and found himself again. He found the guy that she fell in love 6 years ago. He was a lot happier often cracked joke at work place and one thing led to another they started to go on a coffee date. Then movie the next day. And last year they got married (it was their 10 year anniversary together). my mate told me he didn't expect them getting back together. He alrdy moved on. I am getting thru a major break up with my ex girlfriend but thanks to the 2 boys above they gave me ample of advices and I hope I get to reconcile with my ex and I would love to marry her. I learned that NC is very important. Classic saying. If it is meant to be, it will be. You don't need to maintain contact for them to love you. They have to come back on their free will. No manipulation. No chasing. No forcing. The only thing you could do is to shift the focus back to yourself. Keep improving yourself. Get your mojo back. You attracted them once. You can attract them again. It is all about timing. If she is seeing someone else, NC is a good thing it means you don't have to deal with her and the new guy. If she decides to come back, you must be able to forgive and be that charming guy and restart the relationship brand new. I am no longer obsessed with my ex. I started to spend time making myself better. I know one day she sees me she will be like wow that's my ex and he looks good. And maybe our 2 pups could change her mind. I am baby sitting the 2 pups now. I am a good dad. I am a responsible man. She is surrounded by boys who does music festival and stuff. I am the real deal. Sometimes 2 people have to break up so they learn how to appreciate each other. Good luck everyone

First day of NC. Did few NC in the past 4 mths. So it will be very easy for me this time. I will go on a full 3 months 90 Days NC this time. I will use the time to focus on myself. I am a good looking bloke. I could easily find another relationship. But I use this time to fully enjoy my career and single life.