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thanks!! i gave it try and guess what!!! All is well now!!!! He still feels somewhat less than me and fugly as he calls it. But im flirting my way to making him feel better ! In the end he has to make himself feel better right? thanks a ton hun

its quite strange bec`ause i went through the samething with the man I love today ...to this very day I truly believe you should grab ahold of yourself realize that you got one shot of this life. If he is worth it in your heart mind soul than send him a letter or an email express to him the truth. Your truth because in the end thats all that matters. I went through something quite similiar for a year i did not see the one guy i actually couldnt get out of my head. Finally called him when i got back from a trip "accross the world" ...and now it will be 4 years soon that we have been in love... You have nothing to loose by trying hun good luck!!! I know how it feels you just feel so alone eventhough you are having the time of your life and are independent....sometimes its good to not be cold and let yourself go ....

I really needed that advice...but the problem is I have to becareful on how I say things to him...You never know if someone misunderstands what your trying to say to them... Yeah I do get hit on quite often....I never pay attention and I honestly dont care...I love him and thats all that matters.... But I cant fix his insecurity...I think hes hott!!! I Love everything about him from head to toe....Im not sure why he thinks he never gets hit on or is attractive because he is very attractive and sexy to me.... shouldnt that matter more than what others think??? I think we are beautiful together Thanks guys I really needed to hear other point of views (hot here in the south! ) lol

i think you should let it go...if he hasnt treated you right to begin with than why waste your time....unless it has been a balanced relationship where hes not really to blame nor you.... If you really want to know why he called you and just put closure to it...than give him a call tell him you want to talk and when he has time to call you and talk on the phone or meet up for coffee or wherever you uset o hang out....Just dont let him toy around with your feelings not man is worth being treated badly for...... hope this advice works hun

any advice ... I have been with the man i love for awhile now ...but unfortunately recently hes looked at pics and now he thinks that hes fugly. I just dont know what to do ? He thinks that no girl will bother to looka t him and feel slike i deserve someone whos hot looking like me he says. But i dont think im all that ...im a girly tomboy and he says that if i get hit on with a shirt and jeans that he cant imagine how it would be wearing girly stuff. I just dont know what to do hes really letting this get to him ....